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Originally posted by Gangsta4alife
what's your definition of a closet. Because you can be open in your personal life or to certain people, and not tell others because it never comes up.
I wouldn't mind the latter because I like to keep my relationships/sex life really private unless it's serious why does everyone need to know (not that I would deny being in a relationship). And that applies to when I would date a girl as well
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That's basically how I feel about it and was trying to talk to that one person about. They had their head so far up their own ass they couldn't see I was simply just trying to make a discussion not questioning their dating tactics.
I don't get why gays get so damn defensive when it comes to dating.
You are free to date how and who you want but there are other factors to people who are in the closet.
Be supportive at the very least, not thinking oh they must be fake because they're not out nice logic bonehead.
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Originally posted by MP2K
There was no convo or debate about JT calling Madonnas a ninja in here, it was just one post. iHype couldn't take a joke and now he's crying and carrying on about nothing really. Nobody actually thinks he's racist for that, just corny. Madonna is a different story because she actually said the word and people are entitled to feel some type of way about it. I can't tell what someone can and cannot be offended by when it comes to that situation but with JT's it's not even an issue to me.
But to answer your question... White people can use the n-word in any form they want ('a' or 'er'), in a friendly, jokeful or hateful manner and in the privacy of their homes with their friends/family. It doesn't matter what I think about it because there's nothing I can do about it. I just don't want to see it or hear it and that goes for any race really.
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I don't see what's so hard to understand about this.
Going so hard over people who couldn't as much of a **** about you but whatever.
People are free to feel whoever they want go police someone else instead of the wrong people.
And I would like to know what exactly is half is what is being said in here nonsense when I have seen some good discussions.
Talking about i'm gonna stay, but you bitch every 5 seconds when someone has their own issues with the n word and white people doing things they feel is not ok. ok
