You don't strike me as a bright individual with such a response.
If you're feeling trapped in your own body and unsatisfied with yourself, do you seriously think writing it out will help you? It may make the moment better if you relieve yourself of some anger or something, but seriously wtf
The OP didn't say **** about transsexualism. Stay on topic.
This thread......instead of trying to change things And make things more comfortable for people who break the gender norm you rather silence your child.
The OP didn't say **** about transsexualism. Stay on topic.
The OP doesn't say much. And recently there has been a lot of talk about children identifying as trans at a young age. So being trans falls under this question.
This thread......instead of trying to change things And make things more comfortable for people who break the gender norm you rather silence your child.
And that's what it comes down too. These kids are idealistic, they don't understand reality.
Right
My child will probably already be teased anyway, so why would I add onto that by putting him in dresses?
And my child will be born with darker skin than the average child. That's out of my control
And if my child has poor vision he will need glasses or contacts. No way around it
A child doesn't need to wear a dress so again I don't see the point of Slaying's ridiculous examples
I mean we're talking about a CHILD, and they make arbitrary decisions all the time. Sticking his feet in a pair of heels or playing dress up a few times doesn't mean that's what he wants to do for the rest of his life. A child doesn't NEED to wear a dress anyway. There are other things he could wear to express himself. I'm not thrusting my child out into society to be a target.
Ok!
I know ya'll criticize Jada and Will for a reason. Letting them wear a dress is no different than letting them hang with 18 year olds at 13. There's no inherit harm, but the door it opens isn't favorable.
I MEAN. The same people dressing their infants in drag is coming for Will cos he allowed Willow to cut her hair. Why is that?
The OP didn't say **** about transsexualism. Stay on topic.
Wow, seriously.
If someone doesn't feel comfortable in their clothing because it's not "made for their gender", while I'm not saying this must be the case, it's fairly obvious that a person might be transsexual.
So, I beg you, don't advise someone to stay on the topic when you appear to have no clue about the topic itself.
I'm going to let them start making choices for themselves once they hit puberty and know for themselves what they want rather than when they're kids and might do stuff they aren't sure of yet.
My child will probably already be teased anyway, so why would I add onto that by putting him in dresses?
And my child will be born with darker skin than the average child. That's out of my control
And if my child has poor vision he will need glasses or contacts. No way around it
A child doesn't need to wear a dress so again I don't see the point of Slaying's ridiculous examples
I mean we're talking about a CHILD, and they make arbitrary decisions all the time. Sticking his feet in a pair of heels or playing dress up a few times doesn't mean that's what he wants to do for the rest of his life. A child doesn't NEED to wear a dress anyway. There are other things he could wear to express himself. I'm not thrusting my child out into society to be a target.
Not too much judaskills can't handle all that truth
The OP doesn't say much. And recently there has been a lot of talk about children identifying as trans at a young age. So being trans falls under this question.
Well then you're just confusing the situation because they are 2 different circumstances with 2 different answers and reasoning
Nobody is talking about dressing kids in drag. I, assumed, that we were talking about children that at least know what it means to wear different gendered clothing. But that's what you get when you assume with ATRL.
You don't strike me as a bright individual with such a response.
If you're feeling trapped in your own body and unsatisfied with yourself, do you seriously think writing it out will help you? It may make the moment better if you relieve yourself of some anger or something, but seriously wtf
I am a BLACK MALE who wear's MALE CLOTHING
Who is in his SECOND year of University (Don't try come for my intelligence)
I have a wide range of friends (including DRAG QUEENS)
Again I said If my CHILD is 18+ and STILL want's to wear dresses then, it's fine by me. He is grown and is ready to start living his life and making his own choices. Until then he is under my roof and under my guidance. I am the adult my child's Safety comes first not his need to EXPRESS himself through wearing girl's clothing. I was restricted to do certain thing's as a child, I waited until I was old enough to make those decisions, I did not die or get depression while waiting....you not be able to say NO to your child is your problem
And all of that actually happens. Welcome to reality.
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Ok! I did a lot of **** when I was young that I regret now.
There's no reason to allow so much ~freedom before the kid can fully grasp the ramifications of their actions. That's part of parenting.
I know ya'll criticize Jada and Will for a reason. Letting them wear a dress is no different than letting them hang with 18 year olds at 13. There's no inherit harm, but the door it opens isn't favorable.
Thank you
I mean it is a CHILD, and yes there are some children that are incredibly gifted and mature at a young age but most aren't and they can't even make everyday normal decisions for themselves let alone things like gender roles or sexual identity.
