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Originally posted by Cupid
Right.  This is kind of like the 3rd strike for me.
First nobody bothered to tell me my best friend was 3 months pregnant, despite everyone else in my friendship group knowing, and I had to find out on Facebook from her boyfriend.
Then 2 of them flaking out on plans with me and not even bothering to tell me.
Now them just being generally inconsiderate and not bothering to communicate with me.
Sounds kind of depressing to say but I kind of feel like I have no real close friends at the moment, I feel like i'm in a transitional phase in my life where i'm leaving everyone behind. |
They're weaving you out of the group tbh. That's what's typically done when you don't like someone anymore and they're in your circle, you start to weave them out little by little. That's a good thing though. That allows you to be able to meet people who are worthy of being your close friends and not people would rather lie or just not talk to you than to tell you the truth and what's really going on.
I was kind of the one keeping everyone together as a group. The thing is, there used to be like 5/6 of us who were best friends, like extremely close, but as time has gone on and people have grown up, got partners, jobs, moved away etc everyone's drifted and the groups kind of fallen apart.
None of them had a reason to drift from me.
