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Originally posted by ahauntingnearu
how? what exactly do you constitute "self-loathing"? i'm not saying you were talking to me, i just want to know what you mean, because i don't see much of that? are you talking about the guys who wish their voice didn't sound gay? i don't think that's self-loathing. a lot of people wish there voice was lower or higher or whatever, but it's not self-loathing.
and if that's not what you were saying, then my apologies.
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No, I wasn't 'talking to you'. If that were the case then I would have tagged you.
Any gay man who beats himself up or attempts to change his demeanour as a result of social conditioning and enforced gender roles IS self-loathing. Nobody can tell me differently. Remember that most internalised homophobia stems from misogyny.
In the same way that if a woman wants her nose to be smaller or her **** to be bigger, and then attempts to change herself to fit the mould, she's automatically self-loathing and insecure.
It's as simple and as superficial a concept as that.
but i legit cant help it and i hate the way my talking voice sounds
