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Originally posted by KB.
He lacks basic ass communication skills. Like I'm not asking this ***** to hold a conversation with me all day through texts, but he'll go a couple of days without saying anything to me. Like I know guys are weird and y'all have this timeline and **** about how often you're supposed to talk to a girl, but the least you could do is speak to me and ask me how my day is. Like why should it have to be me every single time that initiates the conversation? It bothers me (with anyone really) if I send you a text and you don't reply and I'll send a second and they still don't reply... then I'm done. I feel like I'm being ignored, but I'm not the type of bitch that's going to be like "Please, please talk to me". If I make a solid attempt to talk to you then that's it, but I'm not going to chase your ass around and beg. We ****ed on Monday. He dropped me off at class on Tuesday morning (even though I insisted on driving myself), texted a bit Tuesday night, and I haven't heard from him since.
I don't know if the ****'s normal. Any guy I've ever talked to I've never had this problem with. Normally I can't get their asses to leave me the **** alone. That may be why this is bothering me so much because I'm not used to it, but he claims he's always busy and working and stuff and he doesn't keep his phone in his hands constantly like I do but damn *****... you must think I'm dumb and naive if you're going to tell me you don't see my texts and expect me to believe it. And he'll be like "Well if you call I'll answer". Why the **** can't you call me though? I'm not a caller. I'm a texter. We'll see though... Especially after this last text.  [rant done] |
Wow..........................
How long have you known him before yall had sex?? You should have waited a bit longer before you decided to give him the goodies, and brought up how you felt about this earlier. Simply put if you haven't been together long and he doesn't reply to your text until days later or you have to pester him shows................. He doesn't care about you as much as you do about him.
As far as texting infrequently honestly imo it doesn't really matter if you have been texting constantly for a long time. That's what usually happens with me and people i'm interested in, we text nonstop everyday for a long ass time (i'm talking a month and a half at the least). Then it get's infrequent but by that point it doesn't matter because our relationship/friendship has been established and solidified.
If you think he's nice and want to give him another chance just tell him you have an issue with communication. And if isn't putting in the effort to change he is dead weight and you have to move on. Just my little tidbit
