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Originally posted by Melquiades
There are ZERO benefits, in 2014, of being "down low". This man is probably struggling with accepting himself and pushing him out like that will only make it worse. You never know what kind of suffering could be behind his behavior.
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You've got to be kidding. Psychological well-being might not be one of them, but there are tons of benefits of being "down low." There's a reason why the vast majority of gay people in the world stay in the closet including him.
As for the topic, if a closeted gay man is sleeping with men, can we really expect them to keep their mouth shut or even lie for him? Some of you act as if they're obligated to keep your secrets. If someone wants to stay in your closet, he can stay in there instead of sticking one foot out whenever it's convenient for him.