[Taste of Honey]

Originally posted by 8=K=A=Y=B=E=E=D

Well my relationship with my dad's side of the family has always been kind of forced. So I was going over to see his mom because it's her birthday and because I'm leaving to go to Atlanta tomorrow. I bought her a Pandora bracelet and some flowers. I have no ill will towards her even though she slightly started to disown me when I confessed what my father had did to me... I looked at as a lot of mothers would do that when having to defend their child against such harsh accusations.

SO, I give her her gifts and we start talking and she proceeds to say "You need to go see your dad. You're wrong." I just blew it off and said no I don't and when I said that she was like "You should be ashamed of yourself for degrading your father like that. You know he didn't do all of those things to you and the only reason you're saying that is for attention". Next thing I know I'm calling a 78 yr. old woman a bitch.

I don't know why anyone would think you were lying about something like that, because it's not something that you want to constantly want to relive over and over again. I would've gotten angry myself, because you just can't fake THAT kind of pain and your reaction proved that.

[Indigo Blue]

Originally posted by 8=K=A=Y=B=E=E=D

Well my relationship with my dad's side of the family has always been kind of forced. So I was going over to see his mom because it's her birthday and because I'm leaving to go to Atlanta tomorrow. I bought her a Pandora bracelet and some flowers. I have no ill will towards her even though she slightly started to disown me when I confessed what my father had did to me... I looked at as a lot of mothers would do that when having to defend their child against such harsh accusations.

SO, I give her her gifts and we start talking and she proceeds to say "You need to go see your dad. You're wrong." I just blew it off and said no I don't and when I said that she was like "You should be ashamed of yourself for degrading your father like that. You know he didn't do all of those things to you and the only reason you're saying that is for attention". Next thing I know I'm calling a 78 yr. old woman a bitch.

I feel for you sweetie

[Willy.]

After this vacation I just came back on, I realized old people have no chill at all. They're lowkey rude without knowing it.

This great aunt called a family member of mine's (who isn't even fat) fat basically by saying she need's to lose weight. She said it so nonchalantly too. It was a harsh insult for no reason. She's deep in the church too.

[KB.]

Originally posted by BadBitches

Honey calm down, i know who has a reason to be mad but i think u went a lil OTT in ur post. Sometimes family isn't who u need in ya life.

Bye! I may be saying what I say out of anger, but I've been forcing a relationship with his side of the family for years... despite the looks they give me or the fact that when I was in the hospital practically on my death bed and NONE of them paid a visit or a call... NOTHING.

[Gangsta4alife]

Originally posted by Hooligan

She's venting.

yeah but I understand the poster's perspective in that kendra may say something she regrets, not that I agree tho

Originally posted by BadBitches

Preach. Old people are one of the most grudge holding ignorant people ever.

Yeah I hope that doesn't become me when I grow up, I think old people just grow so tired of life they just say F it to all manners at timees

[Hooligan]

Originally posted by KoreanDream

good ****ing god how many times do we have to go over this
half asian half white
for ****'s sakes

I really could not care less what you are, and I was honestly joking, but hey man, you can be whatever or whomever you want!

[BadBitches]

Originally posted by 8=K=A=Y=B=E=E=D

Bye! I may be saying what I say out of anger, but I've been forcing a relationship with his side of the family for years... despite the looks they give me or the fact that when I was in the hospital practically on my death bed and NONE of them paid a visit or a call... NOTHING.

OMG gurl I have no words. I hope you get better. Ain't nobody have to dealt with all that.

[BLaCKPoWeR]

My grandmother used to be very evil and mean to family members as well. Then she got dementia and is only mean to her granddaughter whom she lives with.

[Taste of Honey]

Originally posted by Willy.

After this vacation I just came back on, I realized old people have no chill at all. They're lowkey rude without knowing it.

This great aunt called a family member of mine's (who isn't even fat) fat basically by saying she need's to lose weight. She said it so nonchalantly too. It was a harsh insult for no reason. She's deep in the church too.

I think that's because they feel that they command respect from those younger than them (which is true to an extent) but you also have to be respectful if you want to be respected. You just can't go saying and doing whatever just because you've been taking up space for longer than I have on this planet.

[BadBitches]

Originally posted by Gangsta4alife

yeah but I understand the perspective in that kendra may say something she regrets



Yeah I hope that doesn't become me when I grow up

I hope I'm a happy ball of wrinkles when i get old, even if the grim reaper is hanging over me ready to pounce.

[BadBitches]

My granny is a bitch to my mother. And my mom is the only daughter out of 6 who cares for her, cleans her house and takes her out for drives and holidays. And she gets treated like crap were as her other siblings are treated like gold. So ****ing frustrating.

[Gangsta4alife]

Originally posted by BadBitches

I hope I'm a happy ball of wrinkles when i get old, even if the grim reaper is hanging over me ready to pounce.

yup but I won't get old ever. lived life longer than many is my answer

[Hooligan]

My Grandmother still calls my cousin's boyfriend his "roommate" like it's cool. That **** is mad annoying considering he came out and everything. Let him be him, damn.

[KB.]

But yeah I've gotten phone calls from my uncles and aunts today calling me a bitch and basically saying the same thing that I'm a liar and their brother would never do anything to hurt anyone yet alone his own child.

I'm pretty much done with them.... I'm cutting all ties and I'm taking this bracelet back and getting my $150 back.

[Willy.]

Originally posted by 8=K=A=Y=B=E=E=D

But yeah I've gotten phone calls from my uncles and aunts today calling me a bitch and basically saying the same thing that I'm a liar and their brother would never do anything to hurt anyone yet alone his own child.

I'm pretty much done with them.... I'm cutting all ties and I'm taking this bracelet back and getting my $150 back.

This makes me so sad. The fact that you purchased a gift and all of that breaks my heart.

[KB.]

Originally posted by Willy.

This makes me so sad. The fact that you purchased a gift and all of that breaks my heart.

But you know it's almost as if I've gone through so much in life that I don't feel pain anymore. It's so hard for me to shed a tear. It's like I'm numb. I feel anger more than anything and I honestly think I'm just frustrated and mad at the fact that I try and try and **** just continuously happens. People wonder how I deal with a lot of **** and I honestly think it's because I'm almost used to **** happening to me so it doesn't really phase me anymore.

[Hooligan]

Originally posted by 8=K=A=Y=B=E=E=D

But you know it's almost as if I've gone through so much in life that I don't feel pain anymore. It's so hard for me to shed a tear. It's like I'm numb. I feel anger more than anything and I honestly think I'm just frustrated and mad at the fact that I try and try and **** just continuously happens. People wonder how I deal with a lot of **** and I honestly think it's because I'm almost used to **** happening to me so it doesn't really phase me anymore.

I swear we live the same ****ing life. Please come to N.C.

[KB.]

Originally posted by Hooligan

I swear we live the same ****ing life. Please come to N.C.

Yeah? So we can be "roommates"?

[Hooligan]

Roommates with benefits?

We couldn't be roommates...

[BLaCKPoWeR]

Family members are supposed to love each other no matter what happens. The collapse of family bonds/relationships is one of the most tragic and awful things in the world to me.