Before anyone drags me, I would just like to say that I'm not a closed minded person at all.
I am accepting and if this applies to you, please forgive me. I am not judging you nor am I looking to put you down. This is just my opinion.
Now I believe that being transgender is a real thing, but I'm not too sure about "others".
When I say others, I mean people who don't identify as male or female. So people who identify as genderfluid, genderqueer, bigender, agender, nonbinary, etc.
I know that it's not my place to tell someone that their gender isn't valid, but a lot of the time I question them.
I'm not saying this is the case for anyone, but a lot of time I see people on tumblr/twitter with "they/them" (their preferred pronouns) in their bio and I feel like they do it to be pretentious and trendy.
Here's my opinion:
You are either a cisgender male/woman or a transgender man/woman.
There's no in between. If you feel like a different you're not your assigned gender, then you are transgender. I went through a stage when I thought I was genderfluid until I realized that I was just a cisgender male who has some feminine traits.
Your opinion?