[Hooligan]

Originally posted by Shady

Nope, I've never been friends with a gay guy before nor do I think I ever will...

[Gangsta4alife]

Originally posted by Androgyne

Um yes, you would be a racist if you found her annoying BECAUSE she was black just like you would be ignorant to find someone annoying BECAUSE they are feminine or because they wear heels/makeup (to a five star restaurant as if that was relevant ). Most of y'all in this thread saying you find feminine gays annoying are not coming from an open minded place so why pretend you are? Are a lot of fem gays bitchy? Yes (so are a lot of 'masculine' gays).. If you don't get along with someone because they are bitchy then go ahead and say that and keep it at that but please don't equate that with being feminine because there are an equal amount of feminine gays who you HAVEN'T met who are sweethearts as well as many so called 'drama free' masculine gays who are shallow and bitchy idiots. I see a LOT of misdirected anger in your post. But why would I expect you to even be level headed.. You think wearing heels (OMFG to a five star restaurant, The horror!!! ) is a legitimate reason to dislike or be annoyed with someone... I'd hate to find out what some of you think of trans people. If the only way someone can befriend some of you regardless of their personality or if they're a nice person, is through gender appropriation, they're probably much better without your ignorant asses

damn what an effortless post. I agree with everything you just said.

Originally posted by Androgyne

Of course I read your post, I thought I addressed all the points in your post that I disagreed with. So you're okay with trans people, just not guys who don't follow gender appropriation as it pertains to what they wear? I mean, I guess that's a completely legitimate reason to dislike someone, but that's your analogy and what you indirectly stated in your other post, not mines. So you say you wouldn't not talk to them but in your first post you expressed your dislike for them and how you were annoyed with them. I had no idea one could assess a persons character/personality based off of "atrocious" fashion choices. You can have your opinion and I will have mine. Where did I say you can't have an opinion? I just happen to disagree with yours and replied appropriately so.

Oh and why exactly can't I express my disdain for opinions similar to yours and my disdain towards homophobes simultaneously? This is a discussion after all..

Yasss

[freebitch26]

not in real life, the ones that i have met are so flamboyant ew

[HonourableVomit]

Originally posted by DimmiFenty

How sad and repressive.

Being gay, we have no set way to live out our lives, we can do whatever we want and some gays are set in a box and are afraid to express themselves, or lack the skill, creativity, and knowledge to do so.

I have hundreds of flamboyant, masculine, in-between friends and once you're able to look past societies "barriers" the happier you'll be. Live for you and let others be themselves. Have many friends and just be happy.

Well said.

Some of my best friends are gay, and one of my closest is an absolute flamer and I love him. He is HILARIOUS.