[NEZ]

Originally posted by Venom☥

Or you can raise your child to be respectful and mannerly without having to abuse them .

again, a smack on the ass isn't abuse. anyway you're right, if i raise them right i may never have to hit them but if they're doing something that warrants punishment then yes i will hit them. it's better they learn at an early age that way they don't become horrible adults. i've seen far too many kids walk all over their parents and blame it on genetics. sorry but no 5 year will be walking all over me or thinking he/she will always get their way. i'm not going to have my kids embarrass me in public or have them treat others with disrespect. not happening, not in my house. i'll be damned if a kid think he/she is going to yell or talk back to me. you will get that ass popped real quick!

[Damien M]

Yes of course.
Kids need discipline.

[Abyssy]

Originally posted by Goosey

were you ever spanked?

No, thankfully.

[Goosey]

Originally posted by Venom☥

No, thankfully.

I think you have the wrong idea about it

[Achilles.]

Nope! My husband, on the other hand...

[Pecinta Mariah]

Yeah, if they do something really really bad, I will be the one to blow spank his ass

[Abyssy]

Originally posted by Goosey

I think you have the wrong idea about it

I don't. I just don't agree with hitting people.

[Silas]

Yes, not abused them of course. If you don't have patience, you shouldn't have children in the first place. I was spanked as a kid and I turned out fine and flawless. I distinguished right from wrong at an early age and understood the consequences of my choices. The parents who don't lay down the law at an early age wonder why their children turn up in jail or pregnant at 14. It's beyond me.

[PedroFilho]

If my kids ever disrespect me or anyone else they are getting their ass beat. And if they threaten to call the police or social services, I'll be like "Go right ahead! You wanna go live in an orphanage and be homeless? Sleeping with no heat or a/c, getting fed scraps, not being able to get the new Gaga record. Go grab that telephone and call the police right now"

And then see how they react

[Cola.drinker]

No with regular misbehaving. But if they do drugs, too young for alcohol etc then yes

[Adonis]

Originally posted by PedroFilho

If my kids ever disrespect me or anyone else they are getting their ass beat. And if they threaten to call the police or social services, I'll be like "Go right ahead! You wanna go live in an orphanage and be homeless? Sleeping with no heat or a/c, getting fed scraps, not being able to get the new Gaga record. Go grab that telephone and call the police right now"

And then see how they react

LMAO! Exactly....

[Silas]

Originally posted by PedroFilho

If my kids ever disrespect me or anyone else they are getting their ass beat. And if they threaten to call the police or social services, I'll be like "Go right ahead! You wanna go live in an orphanage and be homeless? Sleeping with no heat or a/c, getting fed scraps, not being able to get the new Gaga record. Go grab that telephone and call the police right now"

And then see how they react

Fellow Gaga fans will raise a well mannered generation.

[villain]

Yes. Apparently I was only spanked once as a child and that's all it took. My kids will receive their ass beating when necessary.

[NEZ]

Originally posted by PedroFilho

If my kids ever disrespect me or anyone else they are getting their ass beat. And if they threaten to call the police or social services, I'll be like "Go right ahead! You wanna go live in an orphanage and be homeless? Sleeping with no heat or a/c, getting fed scraps, not being able to get the new Gaga record. Go grab that telephone and call the police right now"

And then see how they react

if i see my kid even going near that phone, im beating his ass with the damn phone!

[nabee]

yas.

it invokes discipline and tells them you have the authority.

just know the line between spanking and beating because nobody wants to be a beaten child

[Toya]

One swift spank on the hand or swat on the butt can be very effective but that's probably as far as I'd go. Definitely not gonna be hitting my children with belts and shoes whatnot.

[Rogue]

Thinking a spanking is abuse. Oh lord.

[$AVE DAT MONEY]

i need to gain patience before i even think of having a child. i would not be able to control myself and i would never put a child through that. children kinda piss me off anyway. they ask too many questions that i don't have the time to be answering.

[Jezang Looz]

Originally posted by nd01

i need to gain patience before i even think of having a child. i would not be able to control myself and i would never put a child through that. children kinda piss me off anyway. they ask too many questions that i don't have the time to be answering.

THISSSS so much. I never realized how annoying kids are until recently and I always apologize to my parents for being so much to handle was I was younger. Like idk how they dealt with me and my siblings but wow, I have so much respect for them 'cause I can't be bothered with that at all right now

But when I'm ready I know it'll be the happiest moment of my life

[Kim Kardashian]

No
I plan on teaching my kids that it pays off to be good.