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Discussion: Being Ugly Has Ruined My Life
Member Since: 8/25/2012
Posts: 30,317
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Originally posted by Tymps.
So good news for you, you're all good-looking! Know how I can tell? Because these are **** remarks that don't consider anyone's feelings or reactions, and that's a trademark thing of people who can get away with it, attractive people! So I hope you're happy with yourself (but who am I kidding, I know you are twenty times over!) Thank you for letting people know that their lives are pointless just because they don't have a nice face and that they might as well roll over and die! Trust me, they really do feel it! Might as well start digging their graves now! Thank you so much.
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Mother****er I'm ugly as sin. I'm a woman with PCOS... I'm screwed for life.
I'm just honest.
Life is not pointless if you're ugly, but it's not always gonna be fun either. You'll have good times and you'll have bad times, but you'll always be ugly. The sooner you accept your ugliness the sooner you can move on and try to make something of yourself... and maybe you'll stop hating who you are.
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Member Since: 5/6/2010
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Glad to see most of y'all trying to build someone up instead of tear them down.
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Member Since: 4/12/2008
Posts: 11,333
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Work on your personality. Show some confidence even if you are not, believe me, that attracts people.
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Member Since: 9/15/2012
Posts: 22,487
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Originally posted by Ressti
Mother****er I'm ugly as sin. I'm a woman with PCOS... I'm screwed for life.
I'm just honest.
Life is not pointless if you're ugly, but it's not always gonna be fun either. You'll have good times and you'll have bad times, but you'll always be ugly. The sooner you accept your ugliness the sooner you can move on and try to make something of yourself... and maybe you'll stop hating who you are.
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But this is not the message you were giving in your original post.
"I'm here to tell you the truth. You'll never be cute. If you're ugly, then you're just ugly and that won't ever truly change. Life does not get better for you, it just gets more bearable. The universe is indifferent."
How do you expect people to not get angry at this? Telling a whole entire group of people their life will never get better? Are people just supposed to say "okay" to you telling them that life will never improve for them, even if they're at the lowest of lows?
And by the way, that's not true. There are many factors that affect someone's quality of life besides how they look.
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Member Since: 8/25/2012
Posts: 30,317
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Quote:
Originally posted by Tymps.
But this is not the message you were giving in your original post.
"I'm here to tell you the truth. You'll never be cute. If you're ugly, then you're just ugly and that won't ever truly change. Life does not get better for you, it just gets more bearable. The universe is indifferent."
How do you expect people to not get angry at this? Telling a whole entire group of people their life will never get better? Are people just supposed to say "okay" to you telling them that life will never improve for them, even if they're at the lowest of lows?
And by the way, that's not true. There are many factors that affect someone's quality of life besides how they look.
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life does not get better for you if you're ugly. It's the truth, but you just gotta accept who you are and move on. Get a hobby, travel, work, etc. You might get married or find a boyfriend/girlfriend, but i'm not sure that eliminates the negative feelings you have about yourself... You make your life bearable.
Look, if you're poor and ugly, than yes, life might get better for you. Money fixes a lot.
And looks affect the quality of your life in a major way, that is, if you're truly "ugly".
I'm just asuming this person is really ****ing ugly because he made it seem like it was a serious issue. Once your looks actually become a disadvantage in a job search, that means you're really ****ing ugly.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
Posts: 5,639
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I think its more about rocking what you got instead of trying to be something your not. Id need to see pictures in order to help you out maybe give you some tips
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Member Since: 6/30/2011
Posts: 11,666
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I've always wanted to be jaw-droppingly stunning. My eyes, nose and facial spacing/ratios are good, so I have a decent foundation to start. I'll just tweak some things, like my lips first, since it's the cheapest procedure.
So yeah, get surgery! But your facial spacings really do dictate how attractive you'll be post-op because you can't augment that. Just do tons of research and don't let a hack mess your face up.
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Member Since: 9/15/2012
Posts: 22,487
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Quote:
Originally posted by Ressti
life does not get better for you if you're ugly. It's the truth, but you just gotta accept who you are and move on. Get a hobby, travel, work, etc. You might get married or find a boyfriend/girlfriend, but i'm not sure that eliminates the negative feelings you have about yourself... You make your life bearable.
Look, if you're poor and ugly, than yes, life might get better for you. Money fixes a lot.
And looks affect the quality of your life in a major way, that is, if you're truly "ugly".
I'm just asuming this person is really ****ing ugly because he made it seem like it was a serious issue. Once your looks actually become a disadvantage in a job search, that means you're really ****ing ugly.
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Your argument makes no sense. If your life was unbearable before and bearable now, doesn't that make you life better? You said: "Life is not pointless if you're ugly." Yet if your life is never going to get better doesn't that make it pointless? Is there no other way for life to get better if you're ugly? Why would anyone bother accepting being ugly if nothing will ever make their life better?
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
Posts: 25,504
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Smart is hot.
Funny is hot.
Successful is hot.
Confident is hot.
Kind is hot.
Rude is hot sometimes
IDGAF attitude can be pretty hot..
Build a good body, start doing what you love doing, believe in yourself, accomplish your goals, have some success and confidence and I am pretty sure you'll be miles hotter.
It's not all about having a cute face
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Member Since: 12/28/2011
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Don't worry. Attractive people aren't happy either.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 10,510
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Quote:
Originally posted by Pure Adrenaline
have a nice body marry some old gay millionare wait for him to die get all the money and fix urself
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 34,855
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Originally posted by Pure Adrenaline
have a nice body marry some old gay millionare wait for him to die get all the money and fix urself
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Already working on this.
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Member Since: 10/20/2009
Posts: 20,682
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Originally posted by Rihbeyga
. My mother always says the good looking will marry the good looking and the ugly will marry what's left. Good luck.
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Idk why but I just screamed at this. So blunt. So perfect
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Member Since: 12/7/2011
Posts: 18,969
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Save up money, like I am. I'll be getting my rhinoplasty next summer 2016. It will cost around $15,000, but hey I ain't got no man to spend it on, so may as well spend it on myself to look
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Member Since: 5/16/2012
Posts: 2,445
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Originally posted by Cain
Well, work harder, become excellent at something so looks won't matter (cause they don't on the workfield) and you'll outshine all them talentless hotties
Furthermore, you don't need to get things for free and one night stands are nothing to brag about
As far as sex goes, attitude > looks
If you got money, confidence and a little cockyness everyone will be sucking your d I'm not even kidding
It's all about how you present yourself and trust me looks have little to do with that
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Bingo!
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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To all the people who consider themselves "ugly" in this thread, can you elaborate and share some specific instances of discrimination or just bad treatment due to your "ugliness"?
I am actually quite "good looking", and as a black man, this has worked a lot in my favor. It has helped with job interviews and just socially. People tend to be less hostile to "good looking" people. We also place a ridiculous amount of stock on physical appearance/attractiveness in the gay world, which is disgusting, but hopefully this will change over time.
Most people are only average looking, so I'm surprised to see so many people who consider themselves "truly ugly". Would like to hear your stories.
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Banned
Member Since: 3/19/2012
Posts: 7,835
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Originally posted by Dopeamine
To all the people who consider themselves "ugly" in this thread, can you elaborate and share some specific instances of discrimination or just bad treatment due to your "ugliness"?.
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People said "where is your nose"
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Member Since: 7/15/2012
Posts: 35,409
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Originally posted by amandabynes
Also, I'm sure you're not uglier than Drake or Sam Smith. Whenever u feel ugly just remember Sam Smith is uglier than u!
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Sam Smith and Drake are NOT ugly
They are actually really good looking
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Member Since: 7/15/2012
Posts: 35,409
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Quote:
Originally posted by Goosey
Don't worry about it. When I was seventeen I cut off the tip of my nose and lip messing around with a Benchmade 171
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I know you have a knife obsession, but are you for real?
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Banned
Member Since: 3/19/2012
Posts: 7,835
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Quote:
Originally posted by getback
I know you have a knife obsession, but are you for real?
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