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Discussion: Your Crush Thread 2.0
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Originally posted by Retro
His nickname is Peter Pan, and he's adorable as hell. He's in student government with me, he's so passionate and honest, he's the nicest guy on earth, and every time we talk and every time I look in his eyes, I just feel like it's right.
That's my crush. And I have no clue how to ask him to hang out more often without the context of our student government involvement. I don't know how to just say "hey, let's just hang out sometime, maybe this weekend" because every time I try to, I freeze.
What a mess, how have I come to like this boy so much I'm posting on ATRL about it? When did I get this far gone with it?
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You better get your ass to Neverland and be with him cause he sounds perfect
Have you tried just texting him and asking him to hang out? Obviously it's not the best way to go about it, but it's nothing unusual to do if you guys are friends and close as you seem. Also, it prevents you from making it weird or freezing. Just send the text and go on with your day until he responds.
I'll be hoping it works out for you! You better SNATCH that man up!
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Originally posted by LaNathan
You better get your ass to Neverland and be with him cause he sounds perfect
Have you tried just texting him and asking him to hang out? Obviously it's not the best way to go about it, but it's nothing unusual to do if you guys are friends and close as you seem. Also, it prevents you from making it weird or freezing. Just send the text and go on with your day until he responds.
I'll be hoping it works out for you! You better SNATCH that man up!
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I tried the texting thing - a year ago, during a hella busy week and he literally forgot to text me back. Not my best decision. He's the kinda guy where you've gotta make plans in person, and then probably remind him a time or two. And I'm the kinda guy who takes forever (four hours, once, actually) to just send "Hey" because I get anxious.
But I'm gonna try to snatch because this man is literally marriage material, ain't no way I let this shot slip through the cracks another time, especially as much as we've talked this past week.
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Death at his name being Peter Pan though
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Death at his name being Peter Pan though
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It's just a nickname - but it's fitting!
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Originally posted by Retro
It's just a nickname - but it's fitting!
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Mess, I didn't see the nickname part I thought his parents literally named him that I'm so dumb
Anyway he sounds like makes you happy so best of luck. Hopefully you find a way to hang out with him outside of your involvement. Hanging out with someone new can be so refreshing
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After three years of emotional exhaustion and pain I finally talked with that guy that used to ruin my life. I am free of emotions but I desperately need smn new to crush on. I think i am ready. How do i find smb that attracts me?
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I think I just got over my crush.
I don't know, we haven't spoken but I've liked him since late-October-ish and he always gave me gay/bisexual vibes despite dressing up like a ****boy. We make a lot of eye contact & its long lingering stares, but lately he glances and rolls his eyes and looks away. His sister was also super nice to me then started being shady af but now she's nice again and we occasionally chat. But, I thought it was all kinda in my mind until he followed me upstairs to class one day and walked me to my door & then went back downstairs & it was so weird but I should've said something then, idk I was really shy.
But, I feel super embarrassed for liking him because it would upset me a lot that we didn't talk & it was going nowhere and I didn't want to get over him & didn't really know how cause I've only had one other crush in my life and that was the year before (I'm always kinda knew I was gay but was sure in MS but never really had a crush).
And my friends that sorta know him say he's super religious, waiting till marriage, and that he's emotionally cut off so I shouldn't pursue him at all. And I highkey hate it because I really want him to like me and I'm really desperate for a boyfriend since I've been feeling so lonely lately and I feel dumb for caring this much since we haven't spoken before.
But, today I saw him once and ignored him when he looked at me and I didn't really feel anything at all, so I think I may be over him. But, now I'm stuck in this position where I want a new crush because I really want a boyfriend.
And I live in NYC so it should be easy to find new gay guys. But I have such high standards so.
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I haven't seen my ex-crush since June 2015
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
I think I just got over my crush.
I don't know, we haven't spoken but I've liked him since late-October-ish and he always gave me gay/bisexual vibes despite dressing up like a ****boy. We make a lot of eye contact & its long lingering stares, but lately he glances and rolls his eyes and looks away. His sister was also super nice to me then started being shady af but now she's nice again and we occasionally chat. But, I thought it was all kinda in my mind until he followed me upstairs to class one day and walked me to my door & then went back downstairs & it was so weird but I should've said something then, idk I was really shy.
But, I feel super embarrassed for liking him because it would upset me a lot that we didn't talk & it was going nowhere and I didn't want to get over him & didn't really know how cause I've only had one other crush in my life and that was the year before (I'm always kinda knew I was gay but was sure in MS but never really had a crush).
And my friends that sorta know him say he's super religious, waiting till marriage, and that he's emotionally cut off so I shouldn't pursue him at all. And I highkey hate it because I really want him to like me and I'm really desperate for a boyfriend since I've been feeling so lonely lately and I feel dumb for caring this much since we haven't spoken before.
But, today I saw him once and ignored him when he looked at me and I didn't really feel anything at all, so I think I may be over him. But, now I'm stuck in this position where I want a new crush because I really want a boyfriend.
And I live in NYC so it should be easy to find new gay guys. But I have such high standards so.
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Yeah , its never good letting someone control your emotions if they mean more to you than you to do to them. If I were you I'd look for a new crush as well. Hell, a little distance between you guys might give him a chance to miss you.
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Yeah , its never good letting someone control your emotions if they mean more to you than you to do to them. If I were you I'd look for a new crush as well. Hell, a little distance between you guys might give him a chance to miss you.
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Well, I honestly need to move on from him as a whole cause this is going nowhere and he's not a good person.
I guess I'll just try to find a new crush but it's hard since every guy in my school is straight and there's like 1-2 gays but they're so ugly & annoying.
Maybe it's time to download Tinder.
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
Well, I honestly need to move on from him as a whole cause this is going nowhere and he's not a good person.
I guess I'll just try to find a new crush but it's hard since every guy in my school is straight and there's like 1-2 gays but they're so ugly & annoying.
Maybe it's time to download Tinder.
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Yes, do the tinder! Hilary her impact!
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Originally posted by MattyTacos
Well, I honestly need to move on from him as a whole cause this is going nowhere and he's not a good person.
I guess I'll just try to find a new crush but it's hard since every guy in my school is straight and there's like 1-2 gays but they're so ugly & annoying.
Maybe it's time to download Tinder.
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Honestly its not like it could hurt
Go for it
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Originally posted by Jackson
adjsklj im dying
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Originally posted by Retro
His nickname is Peter Pan, and he's adorable as hell. He's in student government with me, he's so passionate and honest, he's the nicest guy on earth, and every time we talk and every time I look in his eyes, I just feel like it's right.
That's my crush. And I have no clue how to ask him to hang out more often without the context of our student government involvement. I don't know how to just say "hey, let's just hang out sometime, maybe this weekend" because every time I try to, I freeze.
What a mess, how have I come to like this boy so much I'm posting on ATRL about it? When did I get this far gone with it?
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these names are cute as hell.
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Houston we have a problem, I repeat we have a problem
I just met one of the most beautiful men I have ever seen in person he's just so ugh. Anyway, I was in class, came on time and everything with my notes ready and yall this Adonis walks in, he's not even really my type but he's just so beautiful he'sa very light skin black dude probably mixed with some Hispanic or something but IDGAF, he's tatted on his arm and everything. he walls over to my table and sits down, yall I couldn't even breathe for a bit.
Ofcourse, I play it cool and don't want to come off thirsty so I just go on about my business being flawless, you have to know how to play the game girls , ANYWAY, I notice he keeps looking in my direction. I caught him looking twice and he Immidiate averted his gaze , that was it we didn't speak or anything but I'm just so thirsty he's so sexy . He also looks kinda like he has a criminal record but I mean we all have a past right?
Anyway, I'm trying not to make to much of it but here's to the next time we meet. Outside of that I haven't had a major crush in a while and I'm not saying this is major but he's jus so , yall God is so good
Let me not be a thot, I love the Lord hallelujah yall, amen
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Originally posted by BILLIONAIRE✘BOY
Honestly its not like it could hurt
Go for it
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I made one and I've only swiped like 7-8 guys since I highkey have high standards.
Wish me luck in my purists gals.
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Originally posted by Planet Mars
Houston we have a problem, I repeat we have a problem
I just met one of the most beautiful men I have ever seen in person he's just so ugh. Anyway, I was in class, came on time and everything with my notes ready and yall this Adonis walks in, he's not even really my type but he's just so beautiful he'sa very light skin black dude probably mixed with some Hispanic or something but IDGAF, he's tatted on his arm and everything. he walls over to my table and sits down, yall I couldn't even breathe for a bit.
Ofcourse, I play it cool and don't want to come off thirsty so I just go on about my business being flawless, you have to know how to play the game girls , ANYWAY, I notice he keeps looking in my direction. I caught him looking twice and he Immidiate averted his gaze , that was it we didn't speak or anything but I'm just so thirsty he's so sexy . He also looks kinda like he has a criminal record but I mean we all have a past right?
Anyway, I'm trying not to make to much of it but here's to the next time we meet. Outside of that I haven't had a major crush in a while and I'm not saying this is major but he's jus so , yall God is so good
Let me not be a thot, I love the Lord hallelujah yall, amen
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Omg you should try saying hi or talking to him. Since you guys are in the same class you could probably make some bull**** up and ask him if he understands the notes/the material and ask to study together or something. I wish you luck, sis.
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Ok so me and my bestfriend are on like weird terms now
Earlier today his brother came into his room and was like "Oh so there's three people living here now" referencing me I was like.. "I can leave, its really not that big of a deal" only for him to say this isnt about you its about Josh, my brother. He then proceeded giving my bestfriend a "reality check" and basically was telling him he needs to get a job and clean the house. The only thing is .. his older brother doesn't do **** all day either LIke why can't you do it yourself? Its not my house so its none of my business but that doesnt change the fact that he's just as bad but thats not even the worst part. After saying what he had to say about Josh getting a job he then decides to ask me and my bestfriend if we're gay/bisexual..
I was just like "I'm not sleeping with your brother like wtf?" and he was like well idk you guys share the same bed so you guys must be fooling around or something
Literally making himself sound like the biggest douche on the planet, my bestfriend was just like "We dont do anything, we're just friends" and then he says to me "Oh well i dont care if youre here but you really shouldn't be sleeping here." Basically telling me I cant sleep over my friends house like he's ****ing dad or something like who the **** does he think he is? This 30 year lowlife loser doesn't even have enough brain cells to be a delivery driver and here he is with his hot ass breath in my face making assumptions about me and his brother. After they talked I grabbed my **** and told him to drop me off at home. It was the most awkward ride home for me and him because we just didnt say anything for a little and then he says "I hope youre not offended or mad anything he said, including his ignorant comments about --" and then I just cut ahim off and said "Your brothers a dick, he doesnt know me, sounds like he doesnt even know you if he;s questiioning your sexuality for no logical reason". He didnt say anything after that besides bye when I left but afterwards I posted on facebook "Better off without that ****, **** that" and he posted "hahaha" as his status and rarely posts anything of his own. Usually its just shared stuff but yeah, I'm still ****ing mad about it. And just dont know what to do, I cant even hang out with my bestfriend without his brother making stupid ass assumptions and being a dick. I just wish he would ****ing dissapear, he's so useless
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When you find out he's a Gaga stan
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Bump
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