This is what's called daddy issues, its always self hating old people in such twisted relationships not surprised.
The boy on the other hand, yikes your daddy must have been really horrid, till you find love in a horrid closet guy.
He better be rich as ****, buying you diamonds and pearls. That bank account better be filled with big money over 100,000 dollar bills each week to splash. Cause if not, your seriously messed up kid, with such negative energy from that old guy.