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Discussion: Your Crush Thread
Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Victon
If you really want to know what's in the inside, give him time and create a healthy boundaries, just be there whenever he needs you without expecting him or try hard to win his heart.. If you really do love him, he'll know and will fall for you.. Who knows one day he will realize there's no other YOU who can be his home for shelter from the rain, and stuff and surrender for your only heart.. jeez i'm so dramatic
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This is what I try to do. Like, I go to school and enjoy seeing him for 7 hours a day — it's already the reason why this is the best school-year ever.
By the way, your story is heartbreakingly beautiful. I really really hope you will be fine.
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Member Since: 1/8/2012
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I would never tell my crush I liked him. 
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Member Since: 2/6/2014
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Originally posted by Homogenic
This is what I try to do. Like, I go to school and enjoy seeing him for 7 hours a day — it's already the reason why this is the best school-year ever.
By the way, your story is heartbreakingly beautiful. I really really hope you will be fine.
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At first it's really depressing  i would cry at midnight on my bed trying to understand WTF just happened, like he's there but emotionally unavailable most of the times, you know what mean, like fall in a warm perfect place, i know he loves me so much, i am not delusional, the experiences and everything we had, every goddamn smiles, goddamn pictures, laugh, sadness we shared.. T_T finally tho i found peace within me... It makes me stronger and makes me love myself more and more.. I deserve it.
I'm happy for your positive atitude towards him as an object of your pleasure.. Hope it'll lead into a great adventures.. Send u love and hug from here... Just remember not to lose your own self in the process of loving someone.. It's not healthy... Been there, done that
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Victon
Thanks (should i call you sis?) i feel weird, sorry i am new here, i need to get used to all this madness here..
Yeah he was so scared and i was like "give it a try and embrace the reality that we're in love" maybe i'll see what's next, if he decided to make a move by text or anything, i'll give him another shot and will try to make a better boundaries of our relationship, i don't mind if it's just platonic or bestfriend still with no insecure poisons inside. I kinda know he needs time to catch up.. Or maybe he needs time to find clarity in himself
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You can call me whatever you want. The sis thing isn't quite necessary and you'll get used to the madness pretty quickly. The only reason why I was able to adjust to ATRL so quick after I became a member was because I was a guest on here for while before I became a member.
You really should give him a chance if he wants to. You never know what could happen and every experience is a lesson so if it doesn't work out, you would have still learned something from it that you can apply to future endeavors. Just give him some time but don't be upset if he doesn't quite come around fully or at all. Be prepared for what might come and what might not.
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Member Since: 3/2/2014
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I just read the entire thread from start to end 
My crush is my best friend and I give him advice on relationships with girls, how sad is that tbh 
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Member Since: 12/16/2008
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I'm willing to but it's so hard, I really like him, he's so cute, romantic, adorable, he's honestly the guy of my dreams tbh and I think he kind of know that I like him but he gets shy and tries to avoid the issue when I say that his smile is cute and stuff.
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Originally posted by Pikachu
I just read the entire thread from start to end
My crush is my best friend and I give him advice on relationships with girls, how sad is that tbh
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It was a good, long read, wasn't it? 
I love how pretty much everyone's crush is their best friend 
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Originally posted by UnusualBoy
I'm willing to but it's so hard, I really like him, he's so cute, romantic, adorable, he's honestly the guy of my dreams tbh and I think he kind of know that I like him but he gets shy and tries to avoid the issue when I say that his smile is cute and stuff.
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He's either really shy or is just straight? 
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Member Since: 2/6/2014
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Originally posted by BeyNavi
You can call me whatever you want. The sis thing isn't quite necessary and you'll get used to the madness pretty quickly. The only reason why I was able to adjust to ATRL so quick after I became a member was because I was a guest on here for while before I became a member.
You really should give him a chance if he wants to. You never know what could happen and every experience is a lesson so if it doesn't work out, you would have still learned something from it that you can apply to future endeavors. Just give him some time but don't be upset if he doesn't quite come around fully or at all. Be prepared for what might come and what might not.
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What a beautiful advise.. Thanks sis, (omg i giggle) i'll get use to this soon lol
Yeah, the problem is, i have done everything i can which gets me nowhere.. I read a line "why make someone a priority in your life while you're his 2nd, 3rd, 100th option" all i know is, 2 people should work together to make it works, i make myself clear, i said i think about him every day and he just smiled and we just happened to love each other so deeply but the next morning he'll turn into something else.. He's 21, probably in an emotional roller coaster not sure of his sexuality, while me, i'm an open book, every goddamn problems have the way out as long as both willing to try. Well sis, my expectation is too high, maybe another human being will embrace me and i'm ready, i'll count him as a history and cherish all those ***** we have done together, if he comes again with an open heart and possibility on his side, i'll be happy, if not.. I'll be happy too. As this popular quote says "if u love someone set them free.... "
Most of posts here only for that D i see... The thirst...
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Member Since: 2/6/2014
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Originally posted by Pikachu
I just read the entire thread from start to end
My crush is my best friend and I give him advice on relationships with girls, how sad is that tbh |
Lol i'm laughing so hard at this... Sorry tho.. I know how it feels like, we want to get close to that other person, perhaps to know more about his likes and not. But this is all wrong move.. You could try to hang out with him, maybe do some activity that you both like.. And enjoy every damn moments, avoid talking about girls, just u and him.. Do the things u love, as long as u can maintain the relationship with him it's good.
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Member Since: 2/28/2012
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After 2 years of crushing on this guy from my middle school, when I went to a different high shool than he did I just send him a text while I was drunk saying that I like him he just laughed it off, it was 1,5 a year ago and now I rarely eveb think of him anymore and when I look back I just find the whole situation pretty funny 
I just got tired by 3rd year of this ****ery and realised that I got nothing to lose
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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I just ****ing hate seeing him with his girlfriend. Everytime my stomach churns and I have to throw up 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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My school wifi and internet hasn't worked all day but I'm back guys. So as I knew it was gonna happen, last night I had a dream about my crush.
So I was at McDonalds and I went to the bathroom just to find Dominic was finishing up at one of the urnials. He went over to watch his hands and so did I."Oh, hey, awkward place to see you," he says and slightly giggles. I said "yeah but anyway it was nice seeing you." I start to walk away and I feel a tap on my shoulder. I turn around and he's standing there smiling. "What is it?" I say and he just goes "uummm... um.... uhhhhh..." so I say "well, stop playing with me." And he says "I haven't done that yet" and winks. So I open the door and start to walk away but he pulls me back to him, kisses me, and asks "Remember December?" I say "yes and I'll remember this too. Same exact thing but in June." So then he takes my hand and starts walking with me. We go out of McDonalds and just walk. He then stops in this little park area where many people aren't at and says "I love you." My jaw just drops open and I go "if you're joking you can just stop." He says ""would I be joking if I had this." So he pulls out his phone and on there are about 25 draft messages he created over the period of the 2 years since he gradurated. "I never had your number," he explained, "but as you can see I'm deeply in love with you.". Then I go "we have to have a romantic evening. You have never looked sexier your who entire life and to have you is like having a angel as your guide." He kisses me again and says "let me know when I can French kiss you" and I go "right now" with a wink. So his toungue dives into my mouth and we make out and stuff. We then go to his house and just as I pulled down his pants I and began to pull down his boxers, I woke up.
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Member Since: 3/3/2014
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I'm pretty hesitant to tell a guy I like him because any time I have, it hasn't really ended well.
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Member Since: 8/8/2012
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Another day another class of awkwardly hot staring between us. I literally can't take it anymore. I'm hanging out with my best friend tomorrow to tell her that I'm gay and I need help snatching this boy
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 18,655
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Originally posted by Victon
What a beautiful advise.. Thanks sis, (omg i giggle) i'll get use to this soon lol
Yeah, the problem is, i have done everything i can which gets me nowhere.. I read a line "why make someone a priority in your life while you're his 2nd, 3rd, 100th option" all i know is, 2 people should work together to make it works, i make myself clear, i said i think about him every day and he just smiled and we just happened to love each other so deeply but the next morning he'll turn into something else.. He's 21, probably in an emotional roller coaster not sure of his sexuality, while me, i'm an open book, every goddamn problems have the way out as long as both willing to try. Well sis, my expectation is too high, maybe another human being will embrace me and i'm ready, i'll count him as a history and cherish all those ***** we have done together, if he comes again with an open heart and possibility on his side, i'll be happy, if not.. I'll be happy too. As this popular quote says "if u love someone set them free.... "
Most of posts here only for that D i see... The thirst...
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You sound a little bit like me. Everything will be fine in due time. The feelings may not fully go away but you'll be able to look back on this and instead of thinking of the negative stuff you'll think of all the beautiful times and feelings you had with him and you'll love it. As long as you stay positive. You already sound as if you're well on your way so keep it up. You'll find someone who's willing to take you seriously and love you the way you deserve when you least expect it 
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Originally posted by skwonderfactory
My school wifi and internet hasn't worked all day but I'm back guys. So as I knew it was gonna happen, last night I had a dream about my crush.
So I was at McDonalds and I went to the bathroom just to find Dominic was finishing up at one of the urnials. He went over to watch his hands and so did I."Oh, hey, awkward place to see you," he says and slightly giggles. I said "yeah but anyway it was nice seeing you." I start to walk away and I feel a tap on my shoulder. I turn around and he's standing there smiling. "What is it?" I say and he just goes "uummm... um.... uhhhhh..." so I say "well, stop playing with me." And he says "I haven't done that yet" and winks. So I open the door and start to walk away but he pulls me back to him, kisses me, and asks "Remember December?" I say "yes and I'll remember this too. Same exact thing but in June." So then he takes my hand and starts walking with me. We go out of McDonalds and just walk. He then stops in this little park area where many people aren't at and says "I love you." My jaw just drops open and I go "if you're joking you can just stop." He says ""would I be joking if I had this." So he pulls out his phone and on there are about 25 draft messages he created over the period of the 2 years since he gradurated. "I never had your number," he explained, "but as you can see I'm deeply in love with you.". Then I go "we have to have a romantic evening. You have never looked sexier your who entire life and to have you is like having a angel as your guide." He kisses me again and says "let me know when I can French kiss you" and I go "right now" with a wink. So his toungue dives into my mouth and we make out and stuff. We then go to his house and just as I pulled down his pants I and began to pull down his boxers, I woke up.
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That dream was hot! To bad stuff like that never happens in real life
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Originally posted by HausOfJustin
Another day another class of awkwardly hot staring between us. I literally can't take it anymore. I'm hanging out with my best friend tomorrow to tell her that I'm gay and I need help snatching this boy |
Awe! Good luck! But before you tell your best friend, be certain that she's really your best friend or else you'll end up like me with her telling her jealous boyfriend and her boyfriend posting a status like "______ is a bisexual. He is a ******." 
Yes that really happened to me and it was the contributing factor to the darkest time of my life.
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Member Since: 1/4/2014
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Originally posted by YaDirtyGoddess
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We both lived in the same first year hall at uni and had one hook-up & I never got over him. 
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Member Since: 2/4/2014
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My crush was looking so good today after school he was walking home and spit in the snow I never wanted to be snow that bad in my life 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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No because he's straight
It's so hard thought he just broke up with his gf because she cheated on him, So we have been spending more time together sadly I'll never be more than his friend
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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Originally posted by skwonderfactory
My school wifi and internet hasn't worked all day but I'm back guys. So as I knew it was gonna happen, last night I had a dream about my crush.
So I was at McDonalds and I went to the bathroom just to find Dominic was finishing up at one of the urnials. He went over to watch his hands and so did I."Oh, hey, awkward place to see you," he says and slightly giggles. I said "yeah but anyway it was nice seeing you." I start to walk away and I feel a tap on my shoulder. I turn around and he's standing there smiling. "What is it?" I say and he just goes "uummm... um.... uhhhhh..." so I say "well, stop playing with me." And he says "I haven't done that yet" and winks. So I open the door and start to walk away but he pulls me back to him, kisses me, and asks "Remember December?" I say "yes and I'll remember this too. Same exact thing but in June." So then he takes my hand and starts walking with me. We go out of McDonalds and just walk. He then stops in this little park area where many people aren't at and says "I love you." My jaw just drops open and I go "if you're joking you can just stop." He says ""would I be joking if I had this." So he pulls out his phone and on there are about 25 draft messages he created over the period of the 2 years since he gradurated. "I never had your number," he explained, "but as you can see I'm deeply in love with you.". Then I go "we have to have a romantic evening. You have never looked sexier your who entire life and to have you is like having a angel as your guide." He kisses me again and says "let me know when I can French kiss you" and I go "right now" with a wink. So his toungue dives into my mouth and we make out and stuff. We then go to his house and just as I pulled down his pants I and began to pull down his boxers, I woke up.
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I fell off my chair reading this HOT DAMN
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Member Since: 7/9/2010
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Originally posted by HausOfJustin
Another day another class of awkwardly hot staring between us. I literally can't take it anymore. I'm hanging out with my best friend tomorrow to tell her that I'm gay and I need help snatching this boy |
aww. Hope everything works out!
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