wait a second.
so the woman has the baby, she deserves to have a baby she doesn't want because she was "irresponsible".
but the father doesn't deserve to suffer? how exactly was the father /not/ irresponsible, if having sex that can get you pregnant is irresponsible? so basically, only women should suffer consequences, ever, and if a man does something that hurts him, then oh well?
do you even read what you're typing? honestly.