I treated a gay male who was having problems getting hard. It turns out he was really nervous when he was sexually active with his boyfriend but interpreted his lack of erection as being unattracted to his boyfriend.
After he realized it was just nerves, he reported having no problem with maintaining and sustaining an erection.
Above all, make sure you communicate how you know he's attracted to you, and how it's not a big deal. Getting mad or freaking out will make it worse.
Okay. I don't see how he would be nervous if we've been "doing it" for years, but maybe he was just tired.
so why exactly would you be worried?
this happens to every guy.
if you're having sex everyday.
you have nothing to worry about.
attention seeking thread.
I'm a female. I don't know what happens to y'all's parts. Y'all get hard, normally, **** something, bust, and then it goes down. Obviously I would be concerned if we are ****ing everyday and then one day out of the blue he can't even get up for me.
you seem to know a lot about this kind of problem, cool!!!
He won't let me go anywhere near his ass. One time we were kissing and I grabbed it and he instantly got turned off 
