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Discussion: What do you think about guys wearing nail polish, high heels
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None of my business, to each his/her own as long as they're not bothering me.
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Originally posted by Raguabros
If it walks, talks, looks, ****s like a woman usually walks in this society in this time and it is comfortable with its body then it might be whoever the **** he thinks he is. It's his life, his identity, not yours to decide.
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I think I would start to think about such thing like "sex change" when I start to hate my penis. I think that's the first step. Or just the basic feeling of being a woman.
Thank god, I adore my penis. 
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Originally posted by iLays
It doesn't have an impact on my life,correct cuz at tha end of tha day,if you wanna dress up like a box of Fruit Loops then i'll just have to deal,it's not stopping my cashflow. I just can't stand it and it's plain ol gay. There may not be a gay style but female clothing are made for females,or am i lying? You mean to tell me men are supposed to be shopping in Victoria's Secret for a swim party? Child,bye. If you're born with a penis,act like it,unless you plan on going tha full route and getting that sex change,i don't wanna hear it. Not here for tucks
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There's nothing wrong with that. Society has been set up to be extremely divided between what is "correctly" male and female and I find it beyond idiotic. Genders have to do with your genitalia, the way you mature, and your hormone balance. That's it. All the materials: clothes, makeup, accessories, is human-created. Therefore, it isn't actually gender specific. We made it gender specific, but it doesn't have to be. If a male or a female is comfortable in their BODY (irrespective of clothing and all extras), there's no reason to have a SEX, BODY change.
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Originally posted by ririgagalover
if it walks like a woman, talks like a woman, looks like a woman, and ****s like a woman, then it might as well be a woman.
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That's got to be the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Refer to what I wrote to iLays above.
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Member Since: 5/3/2010
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Originally posted by featheralley
When I was young and naive, I thought the same too. But now, I don't think like that any more. I always thought "if a guy likes a guy (gay), dresses like a girl, "acts and talks" like one, why won't he just be a women?" But that's not the case. That's their personality, that's not a "lifestyle". People play sports. That's not a personality, it's part of their lifestyle. If a girl plays soccer, always wear sweats and a tank top, should she immediately get a sex change to become a male? No, lol.
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If it gets to the point where you are literally mirroring what a women does then I don't understand why you wouldn't want to just be a women, because the person is basically a replica of one. If a girl cut off all of her hair (too resemble a man), let her other hair grow everywhere, talked like a man, and dresses like a man, then yes I would say she might as well cross to tha other side as well. I think your confusing that with a tomboy.
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Member Since: 11/5/2009
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Originally posted by RihannaForever
When I was 13 in 2001, the idea of men wearing skinny jeans probably wouldn't have grossed me out or anything. I'd just consider it an impossibility. Now guys wear skinny jeans all the time, though, so I don't consider men wearing skirts anything but probable.
Sidenote: I love your threads here.  |
Aw thanks  I honestly make them because I personally like to see/read other people's opinion (that's why I'm always in the Poll section). But sometimes when there's a good thread, there's always a party pooper/hater that always has to say something stupid to make the board closed. 
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Originally posted by Lily Gaga
I think I would start to think about such thing like "sex change" when I start to hate my penis. I think that's the first step. Or just the basic feeling of being a woman.
Thank god, I adore my penis. |
Yes this!
If he feels comfortable with his dick and he wants to wear high heels and stuff it's HIS business (not even his "problem", OTHERS are the ones conceptualizing it as a problem) and that is all.
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Member Since: 11/5/2009
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Originally posted by ririgagalover
If it gets to the point where you are literally mirroring what a women does then I don't understand why you wouldn't want to just be a women, because the person is basically a replica of one. If a girl cut off all of her hair (too resemble a man), let her other hair grow everywhere, talked like a man, and dresses like a man, then yes I would say she might as well cross to tha other side as well. I think your confusing that with a tomboy.
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Men who like men, have feminine fashion sense, "acts and talks" like one does not mean they should just automatically become a woman. That is them. That is their personality. They did not "choose" to be that way. Like me, I'm a happy and optimistic person in real life. I didn't "choose" to be that person, it's just the way I am. Same with men who are into more of the feminen stuff. They did not "choose" to be that type of person, it's just them. Also, what if they like their body parts and doesn't want to switch? 
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Member Since: 5/3/2010
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Originally posted by RihannaForever
There's nothing wrong with that. Society has been set up to be extremely divided between what is "correctly" male and female and I find it beyond idiotic. Genders have to do with your genitalia, the way you mature, and your hormone balance. That's it. All the materials: clothes, makeup, accessories, is human-created. Therefore, it isn't actually gender specific. We made it gender specific, but it doesn't have to be. If a male or a female is comfortable in their BODY (irrespective of clothing and all extras), there's no reason to have a SEX, BODY change.
That's got to be the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Refer to what I wrote to iLays above.
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I have no idea as to why you are so mad at MY opinion. I'm not being offensive in any way, and I haven't once come for you honey, slow your roll right quick. The OP asked for an opinion. Not everyone was gonna run in and shout, "YAASSS GURLL BITCH QUEEEEN IT OUT BABY WERK". I never disrespected your opinion on the subject, so maybe you are the dumb one for calling me out. Have a good one, sis.
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Originally posted by ririgagalover
I have no idea as to why you are so mad at MY opinion. I'm not being offensive in any way, and I haven't once come for you honey, slow your roll right quick. The OP asked for an opinion. Not everyone was gonna run in and shout, "YAASSS GURLL BITCH QUEEEEN IT OUT BABY WERK". I never disrespected your opinion on the subject, so maybe you are the dumb one for calling me out. Have a good one, sis.
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Way to completely respond to what I ACTUALLY was trying to say to you.
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Originally posted by RihannaForever
Way to completely respond to what I ACTUALLY was trying to say to you.
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Forgive me.  I just don't understand why a man would want to wear a bikini or whatever and still be a man. You might as well get an operation and fill it out. I agree that things such as shoe choices and make up are irrelevant. I am talking a man literally being a woman, only its obviously a man, and with a penis.
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Originally posted by ririgagalover
Forgive me. I just don't understand why a man would want to wear a bikini or whatever and still be a man. You might as well get an operation and fill it out. I agree that things such as shoe choices and make up are irrelevant. I am talking a man literally being a woman, only its obviously a man, and with a penis. |
Well that's what they do. If they like having a penis, then they can have a penis. All a gender is its genitalia, really.
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Member Since: 11/5/2009
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What if they don't want a *****? Or have to deal with periods cuz gurl I don't have time to give up once a month of my day up. 
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Originally posted by iLays
I don't even find this gay.
I have a male associate who wears eyeliner,mascara,not lip chap or balm,but lip gloss,wears perfume,not colgne and wears female tight jeans to showcase his gay ass figure. That's tha kind of gay i can't stand. If you're gay you can still be a boy and act like one
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I'm kinda disappointed, I thought it wouldn't bother you.
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Originally posted by RihannaForever
There's nothing wrong with that. Society has been set up to be extremely divided between what is "correctly" male and female and I find it beyond idiotic. Genders have to do with your genitalia, the way you mature, and your hormone balance. That's it. All the materials: clothes, makeup, accessories, is human-created. Therefore, it isn't actually gender specific. We made it gender specific, but it doesn't have to be. If a male or a female is comfortable in their BODY (irrespective of clothing and all extras), there's no reason to have a SEX, BODY change.
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I disagree with the notion that everything about what makes up "genders," in terms of clothing, hobbies, etc., is a purely societal construct. It stems from natural inclinations--there are differences between men and women and how our brains operate. There is a reason it feels "right" to have men dress one way and women dress another, and it's not just because that's how it's always been. That's how it's always been because the nature of human interaction dictates it.
I think I'm jumbling this up and repeating myself, but maybe you get my point. The reactions that gender-benders get out of people are not just because our culture says it's wrong. It's more complex and ingrained than that.
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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
I disagree with the notion that everything about what makes up "genders," in terms of clothing, hobbies, etc., is a purely societal construct. It stems from natural inclinations--there are differences between men and women and how our brains operate. There is a reason it feels "right" to have men dress one way and women dress another, and it's not just because that's how it's always been. That's how it's always been because the nature of human interaction dictates it.
I think I'm jumbling this up and repeating myself, but maybe you get my point. The reactions that gender-benders get out of people are not just because our culture says it's wrong. It's more complex and ingrained than that.
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While I do agree that there are differences between male and female inclinations, but I still feel that there's nothing wrong with a particular individual of either gender not thinking the stereotypical way or doing stereotypical things for their gender. I'm more free-form than I think most people are, and in this sense, it's just that I find gender to be much more simple than its made out to be and that personality is disconnected from that. I classify most clothing choices under personality and interests, which I personally separate from gender.
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Member Since: 5/14/2009
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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
I'm kinda disappointed, I thought it wouldn't bother you.
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 Im 110& uncomfortable around these kind of people Eli. More than anything,im affected by it due to my anxiety from past experienceS. From my experience,those are tha very loud,rowdy and rambunctious gays who like to cause a scene,and i refuse to get bullets shot at my way AGAIN.
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Member Since: 2/9/2008
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Originally posted by RihannaForever
While I do agree that there are differences between male and female inclinations, but I still feel that there's nothing wrong with a particular individual of either gender not thinking the stereotypical way or doing stereotypical things for their gender. I'm more free-form than I think most people are, and in this sense, it's just that I find gender to be much more simple than its made out to be and that personality is disconnected from that. I classify most clothing choices under personality and interests, which I personally separate from gender.
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Oh, I don't have a problem with them either.  My point was just that people think it's all because of the pressures of society when I think it's more than that. Like, I won't judge other people for being disgusted by them or whatever, not without reason.
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Originally posted by iLays
Im 110& uncomfortable around these kind of people Eli. More than anything,im affected by it due to my anxiety from past experienceS. From my experience,those are tha very loud,rowdy and rambunctious gays who like to cause a scene,and i refuse to get bullets shot at my way AGAIN. |
Like this... That's a pretty good reason.
I can't say I have any experience with it. I have no really loud gay friends. But I don't think fem/gender-bending ALWAYS means loud and obnoxious. Move to a better city?
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Member Since: 5/14/2009
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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
Like this... That's a pretty good reason.
I can't say I have any experience with it. I have no really loud gay friends. But I don't think fem/gender-bending ALWAYS means loud and obnoxious. Move to a better city? |
That "110&" i posted was supposed to be 110% 
Anywho,it's pretty much tha past now,my current friends are very calm and quiet like me (with tha exception of 1 or 2) unless we're in a place where we can just wild out and be loud. Being feminine doesn't bother me tho,since i have a few friends along that line. I don't even blame where i stay,it's more so tha people i hung out with and tha people they hung out with etc.
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I've always found it weird when (what is it called "Fem"?) Fem Guys go all out with the heels. make-up etc, but most times they end up working it better than other girls. & if it's what THEY want to do then why shouldn't they?
The thing that really irks me is Skinny Jeans on ANY guy. That still scares me 
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Originally posted by Raguabros
They can do whatever you like and i command them for expressing themselves how they feel without doing damage to anybody
I have this "friend" who loves to wear heels
And i think they look good on him
I wouldn't do it, at least not now, but i respect it |
He could've taken a razor to them legs though 
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There was one gay instructor I had who was dressing too flamboyantly before. I actually have no problems for anyone doing it but there's one thing I have to ask of them, work it, and he wasn't. There were also moments that his clothes which we called costumes were getting painfully distracting that almost got everyone I talk to in that class complaining about him cause we're barely learning anything from him. Add to that fact that he was trying to be comedic which I have no problem at first but the constancy and the frequency of his antics were getting a little too tired that almost made me wanna go see him and say the **** he's been doing to his face.
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