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					Originally posted by  WheresJay
					 
				 
				You dont have to be, less stress    
			
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 I know I don't, that's why it's still an open decision 

 That's probably something I'll think about when I'm 35 and settled down. On the one hand, not having a kid would leave my life more open--I'd have more time and more money--but on the other hand I may not feel as fulfilled. Plus, adopting is such a fantastic thing to do. You might think that two dads = gay kid, but that's not true.