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Discussion: How to be more attractive ?
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Surround yourself with less attractive people or go to S. Korea and go under the knife 😍
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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U can't always look great  maybe it is just a phase?
I feel like I look bad sometimes but it passes.Maybe u are too used to seeing yourself and just need a little changing?
Try a haircut u like but are afraid of doing,trim your beard, shave your head,maybe even try a new hair color etc...or maybe u should surround yourself with ugly people
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Member Since: 2/2/2014
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Originally posted by B'Day
As corny as this sounds, nothing attracts me like a good personality.
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My personnality is not that bad, and most people don't look at it nowadays so ...
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Member Since: 2/2/2014
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Originally posted by Rev8
U can't always look great maybe it is just a phase?
I feel like I look bad sometimes but it passes.Maybe u are too used to seeing yourself and just need a little changing?
Try a haircut u like but are afraid of doing,trim your beard, shave your head,maybe even try a new hair color etc...or maybe u should surround yourself with ugly people |
I do think that I have a big nose, so I would like to "hide" it but I don't know how to
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Member Since: 8/7/2015
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Well, people are attracted to different things, you know, you can never please everyone
For example long hair on guys is one of my biggest turn offs ( I always get a Jesus vibe  ) but it can be the sexiest thing for someone else
Just do what you want with your hair and facial hair, the only really good advice is go to gym. A nice body will always be attractive. You can easily go from a 7 to a solid 9 if you hit the gym.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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A lil stubble, good haircut, go to the gym, dress well
DON'T get your ear pierced, get a super "trendy" haircut, overdress
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by OmegaRidley
I do think that I have a big nose, so I would like to "hide" it but I don't know how to
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Well I don't think u can do anything about that..unless it is surgery or contouring (make up) but I am sure u don't want that 
Anyways most people don't like features on their face..most just live with it..I even heard most people hate their noses so it's okay (I think mine is big too and I am annoyed sometimes too)! Find something that u like and flaunt it if it will make u feel better.
I personally squeeze my nose cuz I think it will get smaller (lmao) it puts me in ease..u can always try to highlight something in you so your nose wouldn't matter? (which I think will be hard)
<3 <3 <3
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Originally posted by holyfool
Plastic surgery
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This.
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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Originally posted by OmegaRidley
Idk I think my face is kinda gross these days  |
Rock a burqa.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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people saying ear pierced and changing hair color.
does that really work? Cause I'm going to the gym and been growing my hair out from shaved for a year now (my hair looks poofy Didi Pickles from Rugrats 
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Member Since: 4/5/2012
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Confidence, a beautiful smile (get braces if you don't. It's all fixable), a great sense of humor, great hygiene, and lastly, being yourself.
The rest will soon follow. You will figure out your best assets, your style, and how to use it to your advantage.
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Member Since: 6/2/2011
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For men:
- Lift, lift, lift. Get educated about macros, calories, workouts (including cardio). Get buff and get lean.
- Dress better. Pick up GQ or look up advice online if you have zero idea of where to start.
- Get a good haircut. Maintain it. Get good facial hair. Maintain it.
- Read. Novels (good novels, classic, timeless stuff), books about politics, history, philosophy. An educated mind that can engage in conversation is an attractive mind.
- Work on bettering your life circumstances, whether that means a better job or more education. Research and find a way to make things work for you. Once you have more money, fix your teeth and whiten them.
Above all know that you have the power to make yourself more attractive and to improve your life. Confidence will come as a result of this.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Marq
Learn to become more confident with yourself and that will help you so much. You will think, speak, and act more confidently, which naturally attracts more people to you.
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This honestly
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Member Since: 6/2/2011
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Originally posted by Marq
Learn to become more confident with yourself and that will help you so much. You will think, speak, and act more confidently, which naturally attracts more people to you.
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Yes, but you also need to be "realistic confident". A smelly, obese, broke guy with zero social skills who is super confident is still going to be unattractive to everyone. Work on becoming the kind of person that others would assume is confident (good body, good hair, good clothes, good income) at the same time that you work on your inner strength and confidence.
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Member Since: 5/27/2016
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Beards really are the boobs of men, when they grow you feel 100x better about how you look.
Try a new haircut and a new perfume.
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Member Since: 2/2/2014
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Originally posted by Florges
Lose weight
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I'm not fat
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Beard + Muscle + cute hair cut
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Member Since: 9/1/2013
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I'd like to know it too 
I'm sure you are handsome tho
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Member Since: 3/16/2012
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Originally posted by GreasyBruce
For men:
- Lift, lift, lift. Get educated about macros, calories, workouts (including cardio). Get buff and get lean.
- Dress better. Pick up GQ or look up advice online if you have zero idea of where to start.
- Get a good haircut. Maintain it. Get good facial hair. Maintain it.
- Read. Novels (good novels, classic, timeless stuff), books about politics, history, philosophy. An educated mind that can engage in conversation is an attractive mind.
- Work on bettering your life circumstances, whether that means a better job or more education. Research and find a way to make things work for you. Once you have more money, fix your teeth and whiten them.
Above all know that you have the power to make yourself more attractive and to improve your life. Confidence will come as a result of this.
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ddd thanks for this GreasyBruce ffff nnnnn
I spend most of my time on ATRL and SYG and even when I get banned I still can't let go of the habit (even joined other forums)
I have over 1000 posts in there atm and I find it hard to leave. I read "Lift, lift, lift" and I felt so embarrassed because I spend my entire day on the internet
Posts per day are rising but not anymore. Already started reading classics 
Cheers.
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