Nobody's saying that being a masc gay is self-hating. Hating on a feminine gay for no reason other than the fact that he's feminine is quite telling though!
I literally only annoying ones who expect me to be like them or I'm "self hating".
I paid for my copies of Live From Las Vegas and the OMG Tour Live in London (a last minute addition given how cheap it was) and it's still sitting at a Target store 10 mins from mah house.