Well the album was about the experiences of her grandmother, her mother, and her right? And it was also about the ****ed up relationships that they had to endure for the love they felt. But the "cycle" always ended with sadness. So Beyonce is determined to make the most of the ****ed up situations that Jay and life has put her through and to not let them get to her. Make something beautiful from something that hurts. Stopping the "cycle" that has plagued the women in her family. Making lemonade out of the lemons life has thrown at her.
At least that's the ******** explanation I've come up with.

Kinda threw Jay under the bus though.
