Honey just wait. Some half-assed virginal high school relationship for 5 months isn't gonna help you.
I thought it would at least make me comfortable with men if anything.
In high school, a guy could look at me and I'd get hyped as ****.
So this date basically let me remain calm and collected so I'm not a huge ****ing mess at college.
Now I know that men aren't some superior beings!
I don't want to be some nerdy gay who's never had a real relationship and no experience.
That reminds me of that story about the gays on Grindr who asked random men to be their dates for a Lorde concert and they ALL went.
I was surprised they weren't all found dead.
How did you get rid of him though?
Well luckily I wasnt in my hometown so when I went back home from Philly I literally just blacked him
Of course after telling him Im not interested anymore but he kept trying.
He gave up after a week, luckily he didnt have my Facebook or anything
This honeymoon phase is hitting him like a truck
And its so early into you guys dating so its hard to say what you should do lol
But guys like this usually end up being super duper clingy
Be careful sis
I'm just trying to find a way to get him to calm the **** down or I'm gonna block him somehow and pray he doesn't find me and harvest my organs.
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prom...you're in high school?!?! omg you should not be doing this stuff before you're an adult smh
So I have a follow-up to this... and it is NOT the tea. Infact, it's complete ******** girls.
A day or two after this, I'm sitting with a friend and discussing stuff. She then is talking about how she plans to hang out with HIM and another friend later tonight. I was like 'Oh....what y'all doin ' and she said 'Just hanging out... but I really like him. Like don't tell him, but I'm getting close and I plan on dating him soon'.
I was like BITCH....
You cannot be ****ing serious right now. I was like 'Aww lolz', but in the inside a bitch was livid
And the WORST thing is I can't even be like '**** it lols I still wanna go after him' because guess what? I'm trying to get a job where she's working and like ugh. I'm gonna be around her all the time and we're gonna be close if that happens and what type of person steals their friend's man after their friend gets them a job.
Of all the dick to get, they always go after the one you want
Reminds me when I found out my girlfriend thought my current guy crush was cute
I was like what kind of Real World scenario is this
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I don't want to be some nerdy gay who's never had a real relationship and no experience.
2b real with you, yes you do. you don't want to be fooling around like this with men at your age. i thought i wanted that too when i was your age, but i ended up having some people take advantage of me and i really regret it now. just keep it to yourself for now sis. it's not worth it.
edit: oh, you're 18. still, this applies if you're still in high school imo
So I have a follow-up to this... and it is NOT the tea. Infact, it's complete ******** girls.
A day or two after this, I'm sitting with a friend and discussing stuff. She then is talking about how she plans to hang out with HIM and another friend later tonight. I was like 'Oh....what y'all doin ' and she said 'Just hanging out... but I really like him. Like don't tell him, but I'm getting close and I plan on dating him soon'.
I was like BITCH....
You cannot be ****ing serious right now. I was like 'Aww lolz', but in the inside a bitch was livid
And the WORST thing is I can't even be like '**** it lols I still wanna go after him' because guess what? I'm trying to get a job where she's working and like ugh. I'm gonna be around her all the time and we're gonna be close if that happens and what type of person steals their friend's man after their friend gets them a job.
be a homewrecker and be his side ho once he gets into a relationship with her. we all need some drama in our lives
Well luckily I wasnt in my hometown so when I went back home from Philly I literally just blacked him
Of course after telling him Im not interested anymore but he kept trying.
He gave up after a week, luckily he didnt have my Facebook or anything
That's so nice.
If only I had the same situation.
He literally has me on almost EVERY social media platform and I really don't know how he found my twitter since it's not linked to my Facebook or anything. Also, he didn't even have my last name so I have no clue how he got my Facebook.
He literally has me on almost EVERY social media platform and I really don't know how he found my twitter since it's not linked to my Facebook or anything. Also, he didn't even have my last name so I have no clue how he got my Facebook.
2b real with you, yes you do. you don't want to be fooling around like this with men at your age. i thought i wanted that too when i was your age, but i ended up having some people take advantage of me and i really regret it now. just keep it to yourself for now sis. it's not worth it.
Alright, thanks for the advice.
I suppose I'm just trying to rebel somehow since I'm tired of my family controlling every aspect of my life? Like I have to text them every time I leave and arrive somewhere (even school) and it's just really pissing me off. I have no privacy and I can't be open about my sexuality. Literally I'm so stressed out right now, I thought a date or something could relieve some of this sexual anxiety / stress I've had to deal with.
He literally has me on almost EVERY social media platform and I really don't know how he found my twitter since it's not linked to my Facebook or anything. Also, he didn't even have my last name so I have no clue how he got my Facebook.
Of all the dick to get, they always go after the one you want
Reminds me when I found out my girlfriend thought my current guy crush was cute
I was like what kind of Real World scenario is this
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be a homewrecker and be his side ho once he gets into a relationship with her. we all need some drama in our lives
dmf;f; I was like BIH you can get men all you want. You're a straight girl. Back up OFF my property.
This one gay has a crush on me, but he's basically stalking me and it's so scary. Kinda scared to talk about it dd.
He literally has me on almost EVERY social media platform and I really don't know how he found my twitter since it's not linked to my Facebook or anything. Also, he didn't even have my last name so I have no clue how he got my Facebook.
Why didn't u use a fake name mabe u should find his X-bf and ask him how he dealt with this creep. Poor u tho getting proudly cheated on then now this person who thinks you're the love of his life
No point dating until you're like 25, nobody takes life/relationships seriously until then.
Just be single, have fun (responsibly), enjoy life and experience all you can before you start looking for a man.
RT!!!
I've always felt this way but for some reason everyone's always seeking someone to be with as early as they can.
Alright, thanks for the advice.
I suppose I'm just trying to rebel somehow since I'm tired of my family controlling every aspect of my life? Like I have to text them every time I leave and arrive somewhere (even school) and it's just really pissing me off. I have no privacy and I can't be open about my sexuality. Literally I'm so stressed out right now, I thought a date or something could relieve some of this sexual anxiety / stress I've had to deal with.
Is this my Can't Be Tamed era?
in the end, it's your choice. just watch out. a lot of people are much more threatening than they seem.
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This one gay has a crush on me, but he's basically stalking me and it's so scary. Kinda scared to talk about it dd.
i have no idea what motivates people to do that. like do they think you're gonna be like "you found my facebook! so HOT!!! i'm all yours now daddy!!!"
No point dating until you're like 25, nobody takes life/relationships seriously until then.
Just be single, have fun (responsibly), enjoy life and experience all you can before you start looking for a man.
' and she said 'Just hanging out... but I really like him. Like don't tell him, but I'm getting close and I plan on dating him soon'.
Kinda scared to talk about it dd.
mabe u should find his X-bf and ask him how he dealt with this creep. Poor u tho getting proudly cheated on then now this person who thinks you're the love of his life 
