At home yes i would be to scared to go to jail if someone did or said something because i would hurt someone plus its weird how someone can abuse their kids and thats a parents buisiness and you cant get involved because thats their child but if you put a boy in a dress and everyone has a opinion.
Obviously no sane parrent would ever endanger their child willingly. If you're living in a place that's not homophobic I don't see a problem in raising my child in a way in which I let him express himself freely.
If I'm living somewhere that's not homophobic, I would clearly explain to him the danger of it and that I support him in every way, but that due to the current situation it wouldn't be smart to do it and basically that, for that reason, I advise against it.
I don't think the question of the thread was supposed to be like "would you want to kill your child" and more like "are you open minded to break the social norm of gender clothing"
It's cool
You're clearly ok with your child parading around in a skirt being bullied,assaulted,or murder just cause you wanna be some gay pioneer for guys who wear skirts.
I totally get you.
i think letting your son walk around in a dress because "They need to express themselves" is dumb
Listen if a little boy want's to express themselves BUY them a PAINT SET
they can PAINT a pretty PINK dress and hang it on the fridge
I MEAN. These geys are so EAGER to play dress up with their children. And don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with that. Just make sure you adopt a female.
I want to say yes but in reality no. I would not be okay with it and I don't want to deal with the consequences afterwards. If he wants to wear a dress after he has moved out of my house then so be it but as long as he lives under my roof, his safety is my greatest concern.
Obviously no sane parent would ever endanger their child willingly. If you're living in a place that's not homophobic I don't see a problem in raising my child in a way in which I let him express himself freely.
If I'm living somewhere that's homophobic, I would clearly explain to him the danger of it and that I support him in every way, but that due to the current situation it wouldn't be smart to do it and basically that, for that reason, I advise against it.
I don't think the question of the thread was supposed to be like "would you want to kill your child" and more like "are you open minded to break the social norm of gender clothing"
Yeah let's inflict harm on my child by making him repress himself
You'd do right by your kid for that, even if he was getting bullied, so why not for anything else? Makes no sense to me. They're purposely over the top to get the point across of how dumb you sound, making a mountain out of molehill.
There's a huge difference.
I'm not making my child repress himself. 9 times out of 10 he mentally won't even be able to understand what he's doing or feeling let alone fall in an abyss of depression to the point where he wants to physically harm himself. And if it was that serious I'd take the steps necessary early on to prevent any of that.
Not wearing a dress for a little while won't shatter his world. Being constantly bullied and teased for it will, and if I can prevent that then I will.
I'm not gonna make a decision for my child that will only result in negativity and harm every time he steps out the door. When he's old enough and able to understand it and wants to make the decision for himself then fine, but until then it's not happening.
I Will also enrol them into a poem club, where they can express themselves through poetry.
is that better for you?
You don't strike me as a bright individual with such a response.
If you're feeling trapped in your own body and unsatisfied with yourself, do you seriously think writing it out will help you? It may make the moment better if you relieve yourself of some anger or something, but seriously wtf
I MEAN. These geys are so EAGER to play dress up with their children. And don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with that. Just make sure you adopt a female.
Nobody's even talking about playing dress up with their child. You sound very ignorant. It's about letting the child express who they are, how they want to, within limits. Sorry I want my child to be happy.
You're the one making it into one. Bringing up stabbings, abduction, abuse and all this other mess. I'm trying to keep up with you
God speed sis, I've made my point ample times. It's pointless to keep going in circles
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Obviously no sane parrent would ever endanger their child willingly. If you're living in a place that's not homophobic I don't see a problem in raising my child in a way in which I let him express himself freely.
If I'm living somewhere that's not homophobic, I would clearly explain to him the danger of it and that I support him in every way, but that due to the current situation it wouldn't be smart to do it and basically that, for that reason, I advise against it.
I don't think the question of the thread was supposed to be like "would you want to kill your child" and more like "are you open minded to break the social norm of gender clothing"
Hahaha oh I see it now, you're really just homophobic. That's cute. Why are you on a site with lots of gay members and you stan for Rihanna who has a lot of gay fans? Basically you're scared your son would turn out to be gay. And you're falling right into marketing traps.
I'm bi sis
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And what's the problem with them being feminine/gay?
Plus, not having male friends isn't a problem. I can't even at your posts. God.
No problem with being gay, I'm just saying. Wearing dresses though, that's a whole 'nuther thing. It shouldn't be allowed.
There's a difference in being open minded and just plain foolish.
Ok! I did a lot of **** when I was young that I regret now.
There's no reason to allow so much ~freedom before the kid can fully grasp the ramifications of their actions. That's part of parenting.
I know ya'll criticize Jada and Will for a reason. Letting them wear a dress is no different than letting them hang with 18 year olds at 13. There's no inherit harm, but the door it opens isn't favorable.
plus its weird how someone can abuse their kids and thats a parents buisiness and you cant get involved because thats their child but if you put a boy in a dress and everyone has a opinion.
