[Sláy]

Originally posted by Jameson Teqkilla

Right?

And the thing is I'm not a prude. I have a lot of casual sex. If I'm in a long-term relationship there will be some degree of openness. But it seems like a lot of gay men are just ****ing cruel and don't even think about the fact that the people they sleep with have feelings and their own thoughts. There's no consideration at all, it's just "let me get my nut and not accept any responsibility for the things I did and said to get it."

They do. Being in Spain I had a good friend on exchange and we were all in a sports team together (so everyone knew each other fully). Said guy he was kinda (I say kinda cause the guy he was seeing was weird af feelings wise) seeing ended up (after them seeing each other for about 4-5 months and banging on the reg) going to meet his parents in my friend's home country.

He stayed in their house, chatted with them, ate their food...and ended up not even being in an official relationship. Some gays do tha most.

This guy was being so rude and disrespectful, saying he definitely wasn't my friend's bf, that he needed more time to see what he felt...at the start he ignored my friend when they were in public around our sports group, so rude like.

They are at times, worse than straight men. Gays have no reason to be like that, considering the attacks they get for being themselves from the world itself. Oppressed oppressors. It's sad tbh.

[I Am Music]

Yeah, this one guy I was interested in literally gave no ****s about my feelings at all.
We dated and he seemed interested. So one day during valentines day he said there was someone else but I could still bring him what I was gonna give him.

What the ****? I told him about himself without a single curse word and he felt like **** under my shoe.
Some gay males are the absolute pits. But that same day a guy I knew talked to me and he asked me out.

[RudeBoyy]

Originally posted by Big Smoke

Can Charlize Theron say knigga? I mean she is an African lol

She's south African white. I;d be more mad if she said it than if an American white person said it.

Ya'll are making me scared of gay people omg. The community sounds horrible

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by RudeBoyy

She's south African white. I;d be more mad if she said it than if an American white person said it.

Ya'll are making me scared of gay people omg. The community sounds horrible

The "community" is the pits but there are exceptions just do your own thing and meet people.
I met some good guys but do expect some **** ups.

[Maiko]

Originally posted by RudeBoyy

She's south African white. I;d be more mad if she said it than if an American white person said it.

Ya'll are making me scared of gay people omg. The community sounds horrible

It mostly is. And this is coming from a person that frequents gay clubs and so on :\ I don't know how I've

managed to maintain my sexual sanity with everybody ****ing around

Originally posted by Jameson Teqkilla

Right?

And the thing is I'm not a prude. I have a lot of casual sex. If I'm in a long-term relationship there will be some degree of openness. But it seems like a lot of gay men are just ****ing cruel and don't even think about the fact that the people they sleep with have feelings and their own thoughts. There's no consideration at all, it's just "let me get my nut and not accept any responsibility for the things I did and said to get it."

I'm a little prude about my sexual relations but I'm not judgmental if other people have a lot of sex casually.
I just hate seeing that stuff too. In Miami it's just as bad.

I just don't get involved.

[Sláy]

Originally posted by I Am Music

Yeah, this one guy I was interested in literally gave no ****s about my feelings at all.
We dated and he seemed interested. So one day during valentines day he said there was someone else but I could still bring him what I was gonna give him.

What the ****? I told him about himself without a single curse word and he felt like **** under my shoe.
Some gay males are the absolute pits. But that same day a guy I knew talked to me and he asked me out.

Same. I remember I was on the LGBT committee at uni, and we got free entry to a all gay night as a reward (a monthly ting). He was all like, I'm seeing someone else, but can I still get the plus one ticket you have spare? LMAOOOO. He ain't gettin' sheeet. There are the great ones out there and the bad ones. And a LOT of grey area in between. Hell, some of the grey is worse tbh, they're the true pits. I got lucky in the end tho Found a good one, and it's a good ting.

Oh and congrats with Vato. Make him happy He seems cool.

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by Sláy

Same. I remember I was on the LGBT committee at uni, and we got free entry to a all gay night as a reward (a monthly ting). He was all like, I'm seeing someone else, but can I still get the plus one ticket you have spare? LMAOOOO. He ain't gettin' sheeet. There are the great ones out there and the bad ones. And a LOT of grey area in between. Hell, some of the grey is worse tbh, they're the true pits. I got lucky in the end tho Found a good one, and it's a good ting.

Oh and congrats with Vato. Make him happy He seems cool.

Congrats and yeah Vato is a great guy. We had lots of fun when he came to visit.

[Sláy]

Originally posted by I Am Music

Congrats and yeah Vato is a great guy. We had lots of fun when he came to visit.

Thanks It's a nice thing, having that (well, the best one can have in a relationship) certainty. How have I got a lot in common with a white Spanish man, than I do with many black brethren in the UK. And it's long distance too. MESS.

But I'm glad you're happy It's nice to see he met someone, his posts always used to make me sad in relationship threads in the past.

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by Sláy

Thanks It's a nice thing, having that (well, the best one can have in a relationship) certainty. How have I got a lot in common with a white Spanish man, than I do with many black brethren in the UK. And it's long distance too. MESS.

But I'm glad you're happy It's nice to see he met someone, his posts always used to make me sad in relationship threads in the past.

I know what you mean. I relate better with Vato than anyone else here in my city.
Dating here is literally a joke you go on one date that's not even bad and they say i don't see it thanks for understanding.

This is literally what they say I have gone on 4 dates with the same sentence or they just no longer contact me. My friend here had the same issues so he met a guy in NYC and he ended up moving here.

[Big Smoke]

Originally posted by I Am Music

Congrats and yeah Vato is a great guy. We had lots of fun when he came to visit.

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[I Am Music]

Originally posted by Big Smoke

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I hate ya'll lol. We went out.



















The other stuff was later

[Sláy]

Originally posted by I Am Music

I know what you mean. I relate better with Vato than anyone else here in my city.
Dating here is literally a joke you go on one date that's not even bad and they say i don't see it thanks for understanding.

This is literally what they say I have gone on 4 dates with the same sentence or they just no longer contact me. My friend here had the same issues so he met a guy in NYC and he ended up moving here.

The dating scene in general is a mess. I put it down to people not knowing what they're doing, why they're doing what they're doing and what they want. And no one really explains that properly. People choose ignorance instead. And then get vex when they get what's coming to them in terms of a calling out.

The thing is, in the UK it's worse because of the politeness. People don't want to bother people, but there's the general fussy British thing we do on top. It's hilariously messy.

I like how we can relate with those we're nothing like. It shows we're all human in the end. For me the best thing about Bae is how he's not just here, but stans for African and West Indian culture, food and music. Like...and not from a 'it's so cool' way, but actually liking it for what it is. He was annoyed one time because I kept putting off giving him the names of Afrobeats artists and the songs we once heard on a night out with my friends He demanded I gave him the names lmao

[Sláy]

Originally posted by Big Smoke

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nnnnn

I'm really thinking of saving hard to go to the West Indies like. The fact I've never been is embarrassing. It's so expensive tho I have family there, but my family here always tell me I should never go out there alone lmao. I know I should listen to them haha

[Maiko]

Fun has a whole 'nother definition in the gay community

[I Am Music]

Originally posted by maiko

Fun has a whole 'nother definition in the gay community

Not finding the lies

[Sláy]

Originally posted by maiko

Fun has a whole 'nother definition in the gay community

It does lmfao. I had no idea, I was wondering why everyone kept talking about it loool. Then I realised.

[RudeBoyy]

What is it? Drugs?

[I Am Music]

I'll let Maiko answer that one.

[Deuces]

Originally posted by I Am Music

Yeah, this one guy I was interested in literally gave no ****s about my feelings at all.
We dated and he seemed interested. So one day during valentines day he said there was someone else but I could still bring him what I was gonna give him.

What the ****? I told him about himself without a single curse word and he felt like **** under my shoe.
Some gay males are the absolute pits. But that same day a guy I knew talked to me and he asked me out.

;alskjdfasdkfl the ****ing nerve. It would have taken everything in me not to beat his ass for that.

Originally posted by maiko

Fun has a whole 'nother definition in the gay community

So does protected sex.

[MP2K]

Originally posted by maiko

Fun has a whole 'nother definition in the gay community

What does that mean?