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					Originally posted by  Quiqui4eva
					 
				 
				Invite him over to watch it with you    
			
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 I feel like I've been saving all the movies and TV shows that I still haven't seen for someone like him    
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				Your life is so cute. 
  
			
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 More like my imagination   
But actually I enjoy things the way they are now, yet I think that something big is about to happen    
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				awhh you guys are so cute and adorable, I wish you the best with him ! 
			
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 Thank you    Y'all are so supportive here, this thread is really something that I (and not only me) needed a long time ago. I feel much more confident with him and, to consider, things are better than ever. I'm really happy that legacy of iconic first Crush Thread keeps goin' <з  
 
  
 
 
  
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				wait, i just got a windows phone   
you can't have grindr on it? wtf  
			
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				wait, i just got a windows phone   
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 Don't you have a boyfriend Daniel?    
 
  
 
 
  
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				Don't you have a boyfriend Daniel?    
			
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 I'm so glad that this thread exists right now. 
I've been 'seeing' this guy for a few weeks now. We met on a dating site as friends, rather than the normal "go on multiple romantic dates and kiss and make out every time" type thing. We met up at a park a few weeks ago, and had an instant connection of some sorts. We didn't really make plans after that for a week or so, but still actively texted each other. Neither of us stated that we'd like for it to develop into a relationship, and never made a 'move'. HOWEVER! He invited me over last weekend to meet all of his friends, and afterward, we started texting multiple times a day. Every time I've asked him if he'd like to hang out or do something, he's always ready and eager. We've hung out about 5 times over the last week. I'm really starting to like him, and don't know how/if I should tell him. The problem is he's a really innocent person. I'm not sure if he's been in a relationship or even had sex, and has such a beautiful soul. It's hard to explain. He's like an angel.
 
I invited him over last night at the very last minute to watch a movie, and he met my family. We hung out in my room, and I kept getting mixed vibes from him. He would put his hand close to mind, but I was too afraid to grab it. And then he kept looking over at me as I was watching the movie. But maybe I'm just making a big deal out of nothing? I invited him to go to Miley's concert this weekend, and I'm wondering if I should just ask him how he feels about us. I don't know how to do it, though.
 
A) "What kind of vibe are you getting from  us? Just friends? Something more?" 
B) "I think you're a really great person, and the more I get to know you, the more I like you." 
C) "How do you feel about me?" (That sounds extremely vague and thirsty, though.)
 
All of these seem awkward, though. I don't want to openly say, "Wow, I really like you and want to be with you!" because it would probably scare him away.    I'm not trying to rush into a relationship or anything, I just want to know whether or not I should stop pursuing him romantically. I'm totally fine with being just friends, but I don't want to make things weird.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				I'm so glad that this thread exists right now. 
I've been 'seeing' this guy for a few weeks now. We met on a dating site as friends, rather than the normal "go on multiple romantic dates and kiss and make out every time" type thing. We met up at a park a few weeks ago, and had an instant connection of some sorts. We didn't really make plans after that for a week or so, but still actively texted each other. Neither of us stated that we'd like for it to develop into a relationship, and never made a 'move'. HOWEVER! He invited me over last weekend to meet all of his friends, and afterward, we started texting multiple times a day. Every time I've asked him if he'd like to hang out or do something, he's always ready and eager. We've hung out about 5 times over the last week. I'm really starting to like him, and don't know how/if I should tell him. The problem is he's a really innocent person. I'm not sure if he's been in a relationship or even had sex, and has such a beautiful soul. It's hard to explain. He's like an angel.
 
I invited him over last night at the very last minute to watch a movie, and he met my family. We hung out in my room, and I kept getting mixed vibes from him. He would put his hand close to mind, but I was too afraid to grab it. And then he kept looking over at me as I was watching the movie. But maybe I'm just making a big deal out of nothing? I invited him to go to Miley's concert this weekend, and I'm wondering if I should just ask him how he feels about us. I don't know how to do it, though.
 
A) "What kind of vibe are you getting from  us? Just friends? Something more?" 
B) "I think you're a really great person, and the more I get to know you, the more I like you." 
C) "How do you feel about me?" (That sounds extremely vague and thirsty, though.)
 
All of these seem awkward, though. I don't want to openly say, "Wow, I really like you and want to be with you!" because it would probably scare him away.    I'm not trying to rush into a relationship or anything, I just want to know whether or not I should stop pursuing him romantically. I'm totally fine with being just friends, but I don't want to make things weird.  
			
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 This is so cute      
 
  
 
 
  
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					Originally posted by  Quiqui4eva
					 
				 
				You got the D?    
			
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				I'm so glad that this thread exists right now. 
I've been 'seeing' this guy for a few weeks now. We met on a dating site as friends, rather than the normal "go on multiple romantic dates and kiss and make out every time" type thing. We met up at a park a few weeks ago, and had an instant connection of some sorts. We didn't really make plans after that for a week or so, but still actively texted each other. Neither of us stated that we'd like for it to develop into a relationship, and never made a 'move'. HOWEVER! He invited me over last weekend to meet all of his friends, and afterward, we started texting multiple times a day. Every time I've asked him if he'd like to hang out or do something, he's always ready and eager. We've hung out about 5 times over the last week. I'm really starting to like him, and don't know how/if I should tell him. The problem is he's a really innocent person. I'm not sure if he's been in a relationship or even had sex, and has such a beautiful soul. It's hard to explain. He's like an angel.
 
I invited him over last night at the very last minute to watch a movie, and he met my family. We hung out in my room, and I kept getting mixed vibes from him. He would put his hand close to mind, but I was too afraid to grab it. And then he kept looking over at me as I was watching the movie. But maybe I'm just making a big deal out of nothing? I invited him to go to Miley's concert this weekend, and I'm wondering if I should just ask him how he feels about us. I don't know how to do it, though.
 
A) "What kind of vibe are you getting from  us? Just friends? Something more?" 
B) "I think you're a really great person, and the more I get to know you, the more I like you." 
C) "How do you feel about me?" (That sounds extremely vague and thirsty, though.)
 
All of these seem awkward, though. I don't want to openly say, "Wow, I really like you and want to be with you!" because it would probably scare him away.    I'm not trying to rush into a relationship or anything, I just want to know whether or not I should stop pursuing him romantically. I'm totally fine with being just friends, but I don't want to make things weird.  
			
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 be real with your feelings sis. Obviously if he wants to hold your hand he has some sort of attraction.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				No.    
			
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				I'm so glad that this thread exists right now. 
I've been 'seeing' this guy for a few weeks now. We met on a dating site as friends, rather than the normal "go on multiple romantic dates and kiss and make out every time" type thing. We met up at a park a few weeks ago, and had an instant connection of some sorts. We didn't really make plans after that for a week or so, but still actively texted each other. Neither of us stated that we'd like for it to develop into a relationship, and never made a 'move'. HOWEVER! He invited me over last weekend to meet all of his friends, and afterward, we started texting multiple times a day. Every time I've asked him if he'd like to hang out or do something, he's always ready and eager. We've hung out about 5 times over the last week. I'm really starting to like him, and don't know how/if I should tell him. The problem is he's a really innocent person. I'm not sure if he's been in a relationship or even had sex, and has such a beautiful soul. It's hard to explain. He's like an angel.
 
I invited him over last night at the very last minute to watch a movie, and he met my family. We hung out in my room, and I kept getting mixed vibes from him. He would put his hand close to mind, but I was too afraid to grab it. And then he kept looking over at me as I was watching the movie. But maybe I'm just making a big deal out of nothing? I invited him to go to Miley's concert this weekend, and I'm wondering if I should just ask him how he feels about us. I don't know how to do it, though.
 
A) "What kind of vibe are you getting from  us? Just friends? Something more?" 
B) "I think you're a really great person, and the more I get to know you, the more I like you." 
C) "How do you feel about me?" (That sounds extremely vague and thirsty, though.)
 
All of these seem awkward, though. I don't want to openly say, "Wow, I really like you and want to be with you!" because it would probably scare him away.    I'm not trying to rush into a relationship or anything, I just want to know whether or not I should stop pursuing him romantically. I'm totally fine with being just friends, but I don't want to make things weird.  
			
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 Wow, this is beautiful. I would suggest you to go with the flow, as you are already pretty close. Just don't let him go.  
 
  
 
 
  
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					Originally posted by  Quiqui4eva
					 
				 
				Why you happy then? 
			
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 Going on a date with someone Monday.    
Met them when I was younger and now going out on a date Mon.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				Going on a date with someone Monday.    
Met them when I was younger and now going out on a date Mon.  
			
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 get that childhood D!!! YAS  
 
  
 
 
  
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				get that childhood D!!! YAS 
			
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 Actually V.   
We are just going as friends. But hey, who knows that could happen.  
 
  
 
 
  
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				Actually V.   
We are just going as friends. But hey, who knows that could happen.  
			
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 oh    but still! get it!    
 
  
 
 
  
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				oh    but still! get it!    
			
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