[MikeFenty]

Originally posted by BLaCKPoWeR

I mean, she's not touching you now or ever in any dimension, but she's very beautiful, yes.

I know I look good, but it perplexes me how people will call anything pale, with curly hair and eyes that aren't brown "gorgeous". Like...

When will #TeamDarkSkin get its shine? We are stuck in the shadows, where we cannot be seen.

Because it's like getting a white man who is black and not have to deal with your family and friends saying "Gurl you ain't a real black woman going for some white boy".

It's the best of both world for black girls.

[KB.]

Originally posted by BLaCKPoWeR

I mean, she's not touching you now or ever in any dimension, but she's very beautiful, yes.

I know I look good, but it perplexes me how people will call anything pale, with curly hair and eyes that aren't brown "gorgeous". Like...

When will #TeamDarkSkin get its shine? We are stuck in the shadows, where we cannot be seen.

I've been #TeamDarkSkin. I mean black skin is flawless. Light skinned guys are cute or whatever, but a lot of them are arrogant, pretty boys simply because of how society often puts them on this pedestal. I don't want a ***** I can see through. I want one I can't see at night.

[MikeFenty]

KB, that last sentence.

[Sláy]

Originally posted by DillonATRL

This boy is trying me. We are dating/talking and then I'm his "homie" He's happy then he's sad. He wants me then he doesn't. He replies to every text as soon as they are read and then he ignores it unless I ask a question. I'm so ****ing drained. It's like I'm too cute to put up with this ********, especially from him but I kind of like him for whatever reason, even though he is kind of an ass. He's a nice guy, he has a good heart, and I think we go well together BUT I don't want to be his ****ing friend, and I know we won't be in a relationship anytime soon but I am be content with this cute semi-dating "bae" ****, but I can't deal with him as just a friend because we have nothing in common.
Down to ****ing music, like he loves Mariah Carey I can't.
What should I do?

Ignore him. Trust me. He'll drop you as soon as he finds something 'better'. I've been there. NEVAH AGEN.

He likes the attention imo. What does your internal 'compass' say about him though? Listen to that. If there's any doubt or odd feeling, dont try and prove your gut wrong.

[princedonte]

I got a good credit score it's 900 and something finally something good about my heifer ass. Now all I need is a rich white or Asian man then I'm good.

[Sláy]

Originally posted by KB.

I don't want a ***** I can see through. I want one I can't see at night.

Kendra...

[KB.]

But, the highest score you can have is 850

[Sláy]

Originally posted by princedonte

I got a good credit score it's 900 and something finally something good about my heifer ass. Now all I need is a rich white or Asian man then I'm good.

Now let's get into why you hate yo' self so much...

Originally posted by KB.

But, the highest score you can have is 850

[KB.]

Originally posted by Sláy

Kendra...

I'm so serious. Like this chocolate guy tried to talk to me when I was in Wal-Mart last night and he was SEXY, but his name is ****ing Garlando. I can't get jiggy to that ****.

[MikeFenty]

Garlando... I swear these black mothers out there trynna ruin they kid future before it even starts.

[Sláy]

Originally posted by KB.

I'm so serious. Like this chocolate guy tried to talk to me when I was in Wal-Mart last night and he was SEXY, but his name is ****ing Garlando. I can't get jiggy to that ****.

Garlando...what is with some black folk and names

[jeeriz]

Originally posted by KB.

I'm so serious. Like this chocolate guy tried to talk to me when I was in Wal-Mart last night and he was SEXY, but his name is ****ing Garlando. I can't get jiggy to that ****.

Garlando

[Big Smoke]

Originally posted by BLaCKPoWeR

So, this freshman girl I dance with was talking to me in school today. She was gushing about how beautiful and light-skinned these two other dudes are.

"He's so light-skinned and his blue eyes! "

"That's my man. We gon get married and have some light-skinned babies. "



How the **** is my dark ass supposed to take that?

I swear, girls these days will go for anything light-skinned with a S-curl. Either that or I'm just not that great-looking/well-presented. I'll assume a combination of both, but moreso the former.

Beacuse light skinned are bitch ass nikkas and these hoes need their own Aubrey to control.

[KB.]

"He was like my name is Garlando" and I was like "Excuse me, your name is what?" I don't know if it came off as rude or what, but it caught me off guard.

[MikeFenty]

Did you arch your eyebrows and pout your lips? If yes, it probably did seem rude.

[Haunter]

That name is a mess, I'm glad I have a normal name.

[jeeriz]

He should have lied

[Jameson Teqkilla]

do his friends call him Garland

[Big Smoke]

SMFH black parents.

[RudeBoyy]

Originally posted by BLaCKPoWeR

So, this freshman girl I dance with was talking to me in school today. She was gushing about how beautiful and light-skinned these two other dudes are.

"He's so light-skinned and his blue eyes! "

"That's my man. We gon get married and have some light-skinned babies. "



How the **** is my dark ass supposed to take that?

I swear, girls these days will go for anything light-skinned with a S-curl. Either that or I'm just not that great-looking/well-presented. I'll assume a combination of both, but moreso the former.

Colorism it's impact. I def agree with you on the lightskinned part but I think we black guys do it MUCH WORSE than the girls. And Not KB offended poor Garlando like that.