[GreasyBruce]

Originally posted by ChrisRTW

I just thought it was weird they act like roommates around the kids and one stated he was heterosexual.
But eh beautiful family.

Wait what

[superben]

Originally posted by Damien M

I'd post my thoughts on this whole thing but people would go ballistic over it so.
I'll just say that i don't think thats the right environment(?) to raise kids. Jmo.

I disagree with you, but yeah, I think you're right in that you shouldn't explain any further.

People here will just bash you regardless or even more so.

[Haunter]

Originally posted by Javan

Lol. I'm all for female independence. But at the end of the day, when I have a child, yes it is my wife's job to stay at home and take care of the children. I don't see anything wrong with that. I'm not allowing any woman to tell me otherwise. That's crazy. Aint no woman telling me "stay home and watch the kids, while I go to work". Like



Right. But I was talking generally. I don't know their situation. Then I guess their situation is alright

What year is it?

[Eaten By Lions]

Originally posted by Javan

Hmmmm. Ya'll are missing the point. Ofcourse same sex parents are capable of unconditionally love and effort but at the end of the day, a man can not give their child what a woman can and visa versa. And it's very important as young girls that they are taught how to be a woman BY a woman. Y'all are being delusional and buying into the whole equality PC BS. The world doesn't work that way. Men and woman are not the same.

Gerl the mothers are still in the child's life! Mother figures = mothers!

Besides, it's not like "learning how to be a female" is this intricate, complex thing. Men are able to talk about periods, boys, safe sex, safety as a women etc just as much as a woman could. There is education out there, there are resources out there.

[Javan]

Originally posted by RightAsRain

Shame! To think I stanned for your comments when I lurked.

Oh

Originally posted by RightAsRain

I guess kids raise by single parents are utter failures then.
How hard can it be to understand that the kids will always have female figures to go to with or without their mother and vice versa with boys/fathers.

No. I didn't say that. I just said a mother can not give to a child what a farther can. I'm not saying the kids are contracted to become flops .

[Guernica]

I'm a female and I learned how to be a strong, independent woman from my father. My mother taught me jack **** except how NOT to act. There are so many sons being raised by single mothers and they turn out fine, so what is wrong with a daughter being raised by a father? Stop relying on gender roles and stereotypes to teach you how to raise children.

[jeeriz]

Originally posted by Borntodiethisway

What year is it?

He is trolling.

[GreasyBruce]

Originally posted by Javan

Lol. I'm all for female independence. But at the end of the day, when I have a child, yes it is my wife's job to stay at home and take care of the children. I don't see anything wrong with that. I'm not allowing any woman to tell me otherwise. That's crazy. Aint no woman telling me "stay home and watch the kids, while I go to work". Like



Right. But I was talking generally. I don't know their situation. Then I guess their situation is alright

Here you go.

Program the date to: 1950

[Javan]

Originally posted by Eaten By Lions

Gerl the mothers are still in the child's life! Mother figures = mothers!

Besides, it's not like "learning how to be a female" is this intricate, complex thing. Men are able to talk about periods, boys, safe sex, safety as a women etc just as much as a woman could. There is education out there, there are resources out there.

Yes idk this. I have nothing against this at all or same sex parents tbh. I just don't think the latter is quite unfortunate.

Originally posted by Borntodiethisway

What year is it?

It might be because your gay, but most woman want a man to take care of them, and most men want to lead a relationship. That's just the way it is. It doesn't mean women are weaker. We are just different. Why does that sounds so bad? We balance each other in different ways but man can never do what a woman can etc.

[FattMatt]

Originally posted by Javan

Yes idk this. I have nothing against this at all or same sex parents tbh. I just don't think the latter is quite unfortunate.



It might be because your gay, but most woman want a man to take care of them, and most men want to lead a relationship. That's just the way it is. It doesn't mean women are weaker. We are just different. Why does that sounds so bad? We balance each other in different ways but man can never do what a woman can etc.

This!!!! You are just misunderstood Javan

[RainMan]

both hot



the homophobia in the black community is REAL though, especially on twitter etc.

[Haunter]

Originally posted by Javan

Yes idk this. I have nothing against this at all or same sex parents tbh. I just don't think the latter is quite unfortunate.



It might be because your gay, but most woman want a man to take care of them, and most men want to lead a relationship. That's just the way it is. It doesn't mean women are weaker. We are just different. Why does that sounds so bad? We balance each other in different ways but man can never do what a woman can etc.

It has nothing to do with me being gay.
Idk all the women in my family enjoy having a career. My mom was a stay at home mom for like two months and she hated it.

[Javan]

Originally posted by Borntodiethisway

It has nothing to do with me being gay.
Idk all the women in my family enjoy having a career. My mom was a stay at home mom for like two months and she hated it.

Relationships are about comprimise + Woman can still be independent and be a full time mother. If a single mother can do it, why can't a married woman do it?

[Ascension]

Originally posted by Bathomet

only one of them is black.

Originally posted by Javan

I understand the fumes. White woman steal black man from Black woman, now the black man wanna do the same. It's hard out here for a nigtch.

Originally posted by Bathomet

Well I genuinely thougth he was white.

Jesus.

Skin color =/= race.

[Ascension]

Originally posted by ChrisRTW

I just thought it was weird they act like roommates around the kids and one stated he was heterosexual.
But eh beautiful family.

Yeah, I'm kind of side eyeing aspects of this story. They seem to have some serious internalized issues with their own sexuality the way that they're carrying on -- pretending as if they're roommates and sleeping in separate bedrooms? K.

I think it's beautiful that they're providing a good home for those children tho. Kudos to them for that.

[Desert Rain]

Originally posted by Rihhyonce

They're a beautiful family, and the hate they're receiving is despicable. With all of the children out here growing up without parents or in broken homes, why would you ever want to tear down two men loving and caring for their children?

You said it perfectly. The idea of demeaning a happy and complete family bewilders me.

Originally posted by GreasyBruce

Beautiful family

It's all too common to see this type of virulently homophobic reaction to images of families with same sex parents, but even moreso when the parents are not white. White gay men are the face of the LGBT movement and that causes a whole slew of issues as it represents a 'safe', 'accessible' version that ignores the intersection of minorities and reinforces racism by denying them representation in the media, among public figures (there have been many openly gay and lesbian elected officials recently, but how many are not white?) and even in the internet (if you google "gay couple" the vast majority of images are of white men). It's no wonder some individuals are dumbfounded when presented with an image of a happy gay family that doesn't correspond at all with the worldview that the media and the mainstream gay rights movement (organizations like HRC) have peddled.

YAS. The tea you've been spilling lately.

Originally posted by Javan

Relationships are about comprimise + Woman can still be independent and be a full time mother. If a single mother can do it, why can't a married woman do it?

Javan sis...what kinda naija mentality is THIS!?

[RightAsRain]

Originally posted by Desert Rain

Javan sis...what kinda naija mentality is THIS!?

No don't EXPOSE us like this sis.

[Javan]

Originally posted by Desert Rain

Javan sis...what kinda naija mentality is THIS!?

. The RITE mentality!

[Reeawna]

They are so cute

[Minny]

Originally posted by Javan

But at the end of the day, when I have a child, yes it is my wife's job to stay at home and take care of the children