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Poll: Do fem guys bother you?
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View Poll Results: Well?
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Yes
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43.16% |
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No
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Member Since: 4/17/2012
Posts: 330
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Originally posted by Mr Telephone Man
Isn't that the damn truth.
The Gay Community is just as bad as two other communities, who I won't call out, that are so quick to judge their own kind and hold them up to standards half of them don't even meet themselves...but the LORD knows the second someone outside said communities does the same they are all OVER it calling "discrimination".
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This basically.
I have literally zero gay friends for this reason. Well... I have one... but we basically just drink together. All of my friends are straight men, so I guess I've been shoved into some sort of hypocritical reverse-generalization mind-**** twilight zone ********.
I have an idea.
Let's all ****ing get along and be nice to each other. Sounds good, k?
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Member Since: 2/6/2012
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Originally posted by I♥COCKiness
**** that. As a female, it doesn't bother me one bit. It is what it is and at the end of the day they're people too. It's perfectly ok for a female to act like a guy. I'm into sports, video games, majority of my friends are males, etc and it isn't looked at as taboo. Why should society frown upon a male who has some feminine tendencies? It also may have something to do with the idea of them not having a father figure in their lives. That's not their faults.  . It's extrememly hypocritical. I don't think it makes gays look bad. That's a double edged sword. If fems are attention seeking and trying to flaunt their homosexuality does that mean masculine gay men are trying to hide in the crowd? |
A girl can wear jeans, cut her hair short. Wear shirts and boots. But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading, because you think being a girl is degrading. But secretly, you'd love to know, wouldn't you? What it Feels Like For a Girl.
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
Posts: 17,136
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That's what's wrong with society. People are so concentrated on fitting a particular role and worried about what others have to say when they don't, that they are afraid to just be themselves. **** what role society says you are supposed to play and what other people have to say. Let people form stereotypes. **** them. Be comfortable in your skin.
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Member Since: 12/21/2010
Posts: 51,088
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Originally posted by nezLaos
Idk i feel like feminine guys are always doing the most and trying to hard. Alot of them are more feminine than girls, and its funny cause some guys would be so hot if they werent so girly, its such a turn off. |
You know what's a real turn-off?
Ignorance and self-loathing.
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Member Since: 5/7/2012
Posts: 41,067
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Originally posted by Mr Telephone Man
Isn't that the damn truth.
The Gay Community is just as bad as two other communities, who I won't call out, that are so quick to judge their own kind and hold them up to standards half of them don't even meet themselves...but the LORD knows the second someone outside said communities does the same they are all OVER it calling "discrimination".
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!!! When straights judge gays, the gay community gets upset. But then they go home and judge their fellow gays, sometimes in the same ways the straight community does, but they don't see a problem with it? You can't really complain about being judged when you're judging others like you.
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Member Since: 10/28/2011
Posts: 6,626
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Originally posted by Ainsworth
So? That's not the feminine gay person's fault, that's the person forming the stereotype's fault for being ignorant. |
But it still happens...a lot.
Im not really sure where this argument is going 
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Member Since: 1/30/2012
Posts: 2,658
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Originally posted by nezLaos
Idk i feel like feminine guys are always doing the most and trying to hard. Alot of them are more feminine than girls, and its funny cause some guys would be so hot if they werent so girly, its such a turn off. |
pretty much this.
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Member Since: 2/27/2012
Posts: 20,342
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Originally posted by Von
It's personal preference obviously, but the idea that a gay guy can only be attractive when he straight-acts... |
Dude if i wanted to be with someone that acts like a girl, why not just be with an actual girl. 
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Member Since: 4/13/2012
Posts: 3,421
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feminine guys don't annoy me, annoying guys annoy me... A lot of feminine guys I know happen to be catty and annoying, but being feminine in itself isn't a bad thing if you're nice. I really don't care about stuff like that. I am just not physically attracted to feminine guys.
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Member Since: 3/4/2012
Posts: 16,176
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Originally posted by Scandal & Media
A girl can wear jeans, cut her hair short. Wear shirts and boots. But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading, because you think being a girl is degrading. But secretly, you'd love to know, wouldn't you? What it Feels Like For a Girl.
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This song JUST came on 
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Member Since: 12/21/2010
Posts: 51,088
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Originally posted by Rolland
When they are bitchy or intolerant divas.
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What's the difference between a "bitchy and intolerant diva" and a butch dude brawling?
Both are ****ing messes.
It has nothing to do with how "manly" a guy is; it has to do with how much of a dumbass a guy is.
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Member Since: 5/18/2011
Posts: 17,136
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Originally posted by Scandal & Media
A girl can wear jeans, cut her hair short. Wear shirts and boots. But for a boy to look like a girl is degrading, because you think being a girl is degrading. But secretly, you'd love to know, wouldn't you? What it Feels Like For a Girl.
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You know what's funny though. A lot of y'all don't accept that either. Case in point, when Rihanna was rocking the pixie cut many of the gay males on this site frowned upon her and said she looked too masculine.
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Member Since: 6/9/2012
Posts: 3,006
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Originally posted by I♥COCKiness
So y'all have a problem with overly masculine females as well?
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Sometimes its kind of annoying
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Member Since: 8/2/2010
Posts: 12,507
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Originally posted by Guernica
!!! When straights judge gays, the gay community gets upset. But then they go home and judge their fellow gays, sometimes in the same ways the straight community does, but they don't see a problem with it? You can't really complain about being judged when you're judging others like you.
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Nothing but the truth!
So much Femephobia 
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Member Since: 12/21/2010
Posts: 51,088
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Originally posted by nezLaos
Dude if i wanted to be with someone that acts like a girl, why not just be with an actual girl. |
THIS MAKES ME WANT TO zxv;jkxcjkl.
SOMEONE HOLD ME BACK.
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Member Since: 12/28/2010
Posts: 26,529
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Originally posted by Glitter
I'm more on the feminine side and I'm not loud or obnoxious, I keep to myself, so this is such a generalisation.
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im the same way but they hate us i guess 
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Member Since: 4/9/2012
Posts: 13,357
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How are we supposed to be fully accepted into society as gays when we can't even accept people that are just like us? 
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Member Since: 1/16/2012
Posts: 3,306
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Yes they bother me a lot. But so do the girls who are just like them. I hate overly flamboyant and in your face people in general, and many of them are often immature, catty, rude and judgemental.
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Member Since: 10/28/2011
Posts: 6,626
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Originally posted by BoyOnBoy Wonder
You know what's a real turn-off?
Ignorance and self-loathing.
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But if you're gay but not fem then its not self loathing. Now you're being ignorant by stereotyping
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Member Since: 3/21/2012
Posts: 55,134
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Lol you guys are amess!!! 
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