I'm so torn right now. I've had a massive crush on a coworker on-and-off for about 6 months now. There wasn't a whole lot happening with it, though, so I wasn't too attached. But recently, I've been really into him. And I know that he's definitely bisexual, so I have a chance. But I'm too afraid to ask him out or anything.
And then, back in early September, I met a campaign manager for a local politician. I was working for a fair, and he was there for the campaign. By the end of the fair (nearly a week), I liked him and wanted to get to know him better. So I volunteered to join the campaign (plus, it's great for my resume and everything, too). We lost contact a couple of weeks ago, but recently started talking again. I'm going to be seeing him in a couple of days, possibly for the last time, and I don't know what to do or say. I offered to meet up for coffee a few days ago, but he disregarded that part of my message. But then he invited me out to an event, which I was unable to attend. And then today, my mom told me that she saw him at work (I work at the same place), and he was asking about me and wanted my number. fdsfds So I'm getting mixed signals. Should I just openly ask him out after the campaign is over?
This sucks. I don't know who I like more, and I just know that I'll make the wrong choice.