Discussion: Do older men hit on you?

Jay Fenty

Only men who are significantly older than me hit on me, im 20 and only have men who are 35+ pursuing a relationship with me. I know its ideal for some gays to be with older men, but its kind of grossing me out at this point considering that i look younger than my age and the relationships never go farther than sex.

I’d rather be with a guy in his early 20’s who is in the same stage of life as I am.
Where they at though?

Satan

omg YES!

i hate it

Ryuuchan_X

No. No one hits on me

WeFoundTrouble

Yes, the first guy to ever hit on me was when I was 15, working at a drive in diner. I was one of the skating waiters, and he would always tip me so much. I remember on my birthday, he gave me a $50 tip. I will never forget that. He'd always invite me to his house, but I was scared. He was one of the costume designers for that TV show, Dallas. His name was joey something

Anyway, obviously it was wrong since I was 15. But even now that I'm 19, when I go to clubs and stuff, they try to dance behind me but I'll just smile and move out of the way. That's not really specific to just me though so I'm not gonna toot my own horn

freakum.

Yes more than guys my own age

Bulldog

Ideal for whom? Gays are honestly chasing older guys? I thought the 'zaddy' thing was a joke.

Outlaws

Only women hit on me

Right Now

Yep always happens to me! I don't mind, sometimes...

DevonDreams

Yes, but I'm not ageist so I don't care.

iLays

Yes. All tha time. I'd prefer for someone with their **** together to hit on me anyways. These liddo boys ain'y bout **** these days

Reinvention

Yes cause I once dated a 35yr old and that apparently put me in the "open to all ages" box. Like I'll make get with someone older assuming they're a babe, but let's be hon.

Summertime Love

So you are into daddies?

Can't_M!ss_This

Yeah but that doesn't make me special. Old men go around bars and clubs trying it with every young person until they get a yes.

Oddest situation I've been in was when I was drunk and sitting on a stool in a daze. This guy comes up and starts chatting and I'm talking and I eventually realized that he was holding my privates. I asked him how long he had been doing that and he said "Before I said hello" and I was like damn. Never wear shorts is the lesson I guess. He was like mid to late 40's and I was 20. And yes you can drink at bars at 20 if you look like I did

fridayteenage

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Originally posted by Jay Fenty

Only men who are significantly older than me hit on me, im 20 and only have men who are 35+ pursuing a relationship with me. I know its ideal for some gays to be with older men, but its kind of grossing me out at this point considering that i look younger than my age and the relationships never go farther than sex.

I’d rather be with a guy in his early 20’s who is in the same stage of life as I am.
Where they at though?

How young do you look?
Like, Selena young? Ari young? Melanie Martinez young?

moonlight.

yes all the time (and i lowkey love it)

i deadass look like im 15 tho so its kinda messy lol

AlphaOmega

Only older women aggressively.

E-Raine

I've had a guy obsessed with me for 2.5 years now.

But he isn't THAT much older. Just 34. I always make up an excuse as to why we can't be (living in different cities being the biggest) but he says he will drive over whenever. Honestly, I just like having someone obsessed with me. It's nice. Oldest I've ever been with is 26, but he's waaaaaay hotter than me. I acted with swiftness when he invited me over to his house for a drink.

dperkins

You know, I used to think the same thing when I was younger, but as I got older, age didn't matter as much, and the gaps seem less and less significant and noticeable. Honestly, its just not something I think about as much. I mean, as long as you're legal. As you get older time just seems to go so fast. I'm not "old" by any means, I'm 28, but I can understand why a lot of older guys hit on younger guys. Honestly, it doesn't feel like it was 7 years ago that i was 21, and the thought of a 21 year old thinking I'm "too old" isn't something that crosses my mind tbh. Because I don't see myself as "old" or "too old"

Reinvention

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Originally posted by dperkins

You know, I used to think the same thing when I was younger, but as I got older, age didn't matter as much, and the gaps seem less and less significant and noticeable. Honestly, its just not something I think about as much. I mean, as long as you're legal. As you get older time just seems to go so fast. I'm not "old" by any means, I'm 28, but I can understand why a lot of older guys hit on younger guys. Honestly, it doesn't feel like it was 7 years ago that i was 21, and the thought of a 21 year old thinking I'm "too old" isn't something that crosses my mind tbh. Because I don't see myself as "old" or "too old"

I'm more or less in the same boat. That whole "same stage in life" think is such ******** the second you've finished studying, your life goes literally any which way from there on out.

ariesjow

35 is considered "old"?