I apologize about posting here but the HIV/AIDS thread is locked and so does the blog section. Basically today I hooked up with a person. I didn't have any anal penetration until today ( was celibate 3 years ago). Anyways, he wore a condom and he used spit as lube, but he told me later that he had bareback encounters but I had nothing to worry about cause he gets frequently tested and donates blood. However, after the encounter I feel so guilt riddled and scared cause of the entire situation. Anyways, should I get a blood test after 3 months or I have nothing to worry about ?

You likely have nothing to worry about but you should still get tested anyway.

If you used a condom, you'll likely be okay. But if it's bothering you, just get a check up anyway, you have nothing to lose & it'll make you feel better. But using a condom is the best way to avoid STI's so odds are you're okay.

Good luck.

If you fear you have contracted HIV, don't wait 3 months, visit a clinic asap (I believe it's 72 hours in most countries).

If he wore a condom, though, that's 99% safe and you have little to worry about.

Don't be scared to get checked regardless. Waiting will only lessen your chances of getting rid of the virus.

I don't think he gave you anything tbh. HIV doesn't spread via saliva, so unless the condom broke, you're all safe. But as others suggested, going and getting tested won't do you no harm.

Same. I was with a guy yesterday afternoon and we spoke about it all beforehand, but mentally it's still scary.

No anal involved though, just oral (+ swallow).

It's always safe to get tested anyway.