Discussion: Happy St Patrick's Day

jagger88788

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Originally posted by Buddy

What r ur thots on them? Stories?

They make me cringe but feel bad at the same time. 4 some reason a lot of geys think if you grow a beard and gain huge muscles, that makes you masc. But they still have gay face and talk like Frankie Grande, and you just see right through into their rebel heart.

At the same time, I shouldn't judge. This one time, I told someone on here I was going to try to get into sports, which I was genuinely curious to try, and they told me not to hate myself.

One of my gay friends is entering the military, but I'm convinced a big part in why he's doing it is to seem masc. He asked me if his voice sounded high, in a deep concerned tone. In my head I was just like "Lady Gaga didn't break ha ****ing hip for this"

Uh kinda gross that that's what you worry about

Some gay guys like drag, some gay guys like sports. Plenty enjoy both.

Why is it so hard to understand that being gay is not a personality trait

jonasha

So if you're gay and join the military then the ultimate motive is to appear masc, not having a sense of duty or just wanting to do it?

Gays can be masc, gays can be femme. Leave everyone the **** alone and let them do themselves.

Buddy

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Originally posted by jagger88788

Uh kinda gross that that's what you worry about

Some gay guys like drag, some gay guys like sports

Why is it so hard to understand that being gay is not a personality trait

I didn't say that's all I'm worried about. It's not a trait... but there is definitely some self hate with some struggling gays.

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Originally posted by jonasha

So if you're gay and join the military then the ultimate motive is to appear masc, not having a sense of duty or just wanting to do it?

Gays can be masc, gays can be femme. Leave everyone the **** alone and let them do themselves.

No, like, I really think so. He has a lot of family who have gone into the military, so it's not as scary to him. But trust me, he does not care about America. Like at all. Lmao.

6 Apple St

I hate it! especially when they claim they're straight! Not with those shoes henny

blaggot

the only problem I have with masculine gay men is when they shame feminine gay men

at the end of the day a dick in the ass is a dick in the ass, and it's all gay as ****. this is only one of many problems in the gay community tho

James Maslow

I'm sorry, but:

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He asked me if his voice sounded high, in a deep concerned tone. In my head I was just like "Lady Gaga didn't break ha ****ing hip for this"

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G.U.Y

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They make me cringe -- but feel bad
See right through into their rebel heart. -- I shouldn't judge.

ART

britkneepopboi

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Originally posted by jagger88788

Uh kinda gross that that's what you worry about

Some gay guys like drag, some gay guys like sports. Plenty enjoy both.

Why is it so hard to understand that being gay is not a personality trait

Clock ha on the first post!

Scotty

I act more masc cause I was raised that way, I don't shame the fems but the guys who try really hard to be masc are annoying and transparent af. The kinda guys with severe gay face whose Grindr profiles say "into working out" with like 100 different sport emojis like... yeah right 💀

Jackson

Not all gays are feminine and to say every masc gay is just trying too hard is really closed minded. And even if they are trying to force it let them do what makes them happy

Toya

ATRL really makes me think feminine gays feel inferior to masculine gays.

manwhore

Every other gay on socail media, especially latinos and blacks. I say this as a latino myself before someone comes screaming awkwardly "racist racist."

If you dont know LA is for baseball or if you dont watch sports, dont rock that jersey or that team's logo. CRINGE. Also i see allot of girly gays dressing as their true selves but want those urban gays with tatoos so start dressing urban.. cringe x 10000.

Ryuuchan_X

I almost feel bad for them because of their internalized homophobia but I hate how they think they're better than feminine gays. I hope that all "masc" gays will stop hating themselves and come to terms with their inner fem self.

iHype.

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Originally posted by blaggot

the only problem I have with masculine gay men is when they shame feminine gay men

at the end of the day a dick in the ass is a dick in the ass, and it's all gay as ****. this is only one of many problems in the gay community tho

This!!

And gay guys who try hard to be overly feminine and are so extra about it can be just as annoying.

AMENHOOKER

They're self-loathing. Poor them.

Willy.

This thread kinda boxes gays into one big rainbow box. I get what you mean, but gays are just regular people, too.

Quiqui4eva

I don't see a problem with that. However, it irks me seeing some gays (plenty on here) dehumanizing others for being more flamboyant and feminine, especially when they aren't naturally 'masc' themselves.

Buddy

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Originally posted by britkneepopboi

Clock ha on the first post!

I was not clocked. I know that. You can be any personality type and be gay, masc, fem, and in between. But there are some gays you can just tell are trying to fit into the masc category for a number of reasons: what society tells them is ok, to be more attractive (since most gays for some reason LOVE straight guys),or because they have a hatred for fem gays + that stereotype and don't want to be associated with it.

Eggy.

Stop being ignorant. I know plenty of masc gays. That's just how they are, not how they try to be