When you're in a terrible situation and you need help, is it too hard for you to ask for help? Do you try to do things on your own without anyone's help?
yes i love helping people, but when i have issues i'm mute and pretend everything is okay.
i suffer in silence... like if i got stabbed in the streets i wouldn't ask for help i'd just be like "just **** me up"
Help is only hard to ask for when you don't know what you need help with.
Like if you're broke af, it's like "mum, can I have some money?"
But if you have depression, then you can say "I need help." But "help" can vary and whatever it is (meds, someone to talk to, someone to help you organise your life) it isn't guaranteed to work.
Hmm, I was gonna say no, but then I realized that the reason I never feel the way y'all are feeling is because I never even consider asking for help. Its like, not an option for me.
I'm pretty independent and like to do some things on my own, so it comes to something I've already set my mind on doing on my own, I have a hard time asking for help.
Otherwise, I don't really mind asking for help from others.
yes i love helping people, but when i have issues i'm mute and pretend everything is okay.
i suffer in silence... like if i got stabbed in the streets i wouldn't ask for help i'd just be like "just **** me up"
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Originally posted by Legacy
Yes it's terrible I feel like I have to do everything on my own yet I don't mind when other people ask for help.
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is there any chances you guys are fellow capricorn?
I literally asked this lady I worked with for help yesterday and it resulted in a 2 hour phone conversation with her putting me down so I decided if I need help I'd rather just figure it out on my own and take my time lol