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Originally posted by POKER
if it's a serious relationship we'd both go get tested together so we can be 100 sure and comfortable with one another, if it's just a shallow relationship I'd ditch him because ain't nobody got time for that. |
that makes sense. as long as you y'all are honest and safe that's all that matters.
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Originally posted by JonginBey
Honestly, it'll rub me the wrong way a little. Jealousy, a little possessiveness, a little insecurity, and intimidation may be at a fault; however, I wouldn't lose interest in that person. I would prefer not to know, and I would trust them to have been safe up until the point of us dating. |
that's reasonable, it's human nature to get a bit jealous because if you like that person alot, your basically just gonna want them to only be with you so when the thought of them being with others so passionately, kinda makes you feel possessive but that's all okay tbh. as long as you know it's their past and that y'all both want each other then nothing should be a problem
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Originally posted by Truth Teller
It's all about how that person treats me. I don't care if you've been with 200 people in the past. Just don't treat me like I'm just the 201st. I don't know if that makes sense or if it sounds entitled, but that's how I feel about it
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!!! exactly! and i never do nor should anyone else. feeling like your just a name on their long list of past lovers suck so you should never be treated such a way. you and everyone else deserve to be treated like the #1 priority and that's what matters. i agree truly and i understand what your saying because im the same way. no worries
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Originally posted by Popboi.
If he gets tested and has nothing I wouldn't care.
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yaass!
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Originally posted by ShouldersSideways
My first boyfriend was that way and then ended up cheating on me so I'm not so sure. I also get retroactively jealous and anxiety thinking about a guy's past partners.  |
i wouldn't blame every guy that has a past like that to be a cheater, you honestly probably chose a guy that probably was a douchebag and wasn't good for you in the first place. i'm one of those guys that never cheated on anyone truly, because once a cheater is always a cheater no matter what. and ahh i see, honestly for your mentality, it'd be better if you probably never knew but just made sure their safe and okay, cause that what matters in the end anyway.
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Originally posted by Scandal & Media
Meh I don't know tbh. My boyfriend and I were both virgins before we started dating this time last year.
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awww, that's so cute! reminds me of 'Teenage Dream' tbh lol. i guess you won't know truly until you confront someone you like but it doesn't matter really. we're all human and have lived, it's natural.
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Originally posted by Almodusa
If we can trust each other, it's fine. I'd be a hypocrite to judge.
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exactly! i feel the same way, espically knowing if my past is hella similar to his so i'd be a damn fool to try to judge
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Originally posted by MusicTalker
I would/have made them talk about sexual partners before even thinking about making it official with them.
I usually talk about that by the 2nd date or especially if I'm about to sleep with them.
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that's reasonable. just as long as their comfortable with you to be open then it should all be fine honestly.
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Originally posted by Exzime.
Maybe I'd get jealous at first but I know eventually I'll let it slip. Just gotta trust someone you're with  |
true that! trust is the key and if you truly like or love them, trust and honesty always comes first
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idk, knowing me and my past i couldnt and even if not, i still wouldnt judge. nobody deserves to be put down or judged for living their life on their own terms.