should it

mine was but it doesnt have to be, people can do w/e

It should be whatever you want it to be

it's up to them, i ain't judging
but i'd want my first to be special, with the one i love

It's nice if it goes that way - but putting so much pressure on it being perfect just ends up ruining it sometimes. And unless you do end up staying with them until you die (which rarely happens in this age), you're going to have waited and waited to bang someone who you're either going to eventually hate or just not care about

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I don't think it matters.

Mine was with my roommate while we were on a school trip to San Antonio

Idk if it should be, but my first time wasn't and it was forgettable as ****. I didn't even orgasm, the other guy did it very fast (cuz that's the effect I have on others ) and then I felt weird cuz it was like he was waiting for me to ... u know But at the same time it doesn't mean much to me, so when I fall in love and do it with the guy I am crazy about, it'd be more special than my first time by far, so who cares ... ?

Right now I want to fool around with guys and ****, but at the same time I remember how "empty" I felt after each time I fooled around (I've done it only 3 or 4 times I am no ****) and I really want to fall in love But it's really hard with gay people (cuz yeah we are a niche)

I used to think that all I want is to do things with someone hot and recently I had a lot of fun with this model who was really hot, his skin was perfect, his body was perfect etc. and after that when I go home I still don't feel anything. I realized that I just want to feel something, even if it's with a guy who isn't a tumblr model u know...

not necessarily.

It's gonna be weird, awkward and bad, just be with someone who makes you feel comfortable.

You should have SOME standards, but I don't think being in love is necessary.

Mine was but it should be with anyone you want

Someone you trust at least

This is true. It's your choice to do it with whoever. I was just glad it was with someone I trusted since my first time was so horrible and awkward.

idts, but it doesnt mean it should be with an anon at your local gay club gloryhole

No. Get some practice first before committing and giving bad sex to the one you fall in love. Or else they will move on.

That GIF is a ghetto mess, indeed.