It happens that I live in town and in a homophobic country so having gay rights is hard for me. It happens that manjam is rarely used as a dating site and there isn't any queers on okcupid, so I go a lot on grindr, but the guys there are extremely shallow, so I'm left quite alone. It will be a year for me since I'm single.

I was wondering for fella middle eastern gays and guys who live in towns and homophobic areas, how do you find or date good guys ? Any good apps or sites ?

And in the worse case scenario, how can I accept the fact that I might be single for a while ? I just feel the need to be loved and hugged so badly I feel like hell.

You all must be horny as hell considering how hard it is to find another gay guy there.

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That's a total myth. You'll be surprised how easy it is to score a good lay in places like Dubai or Beirut.

It's not hard to hookup in rural areas of lebanon or but personally I'm the type of person who doesn't do hookups.

My advice is don't date in the Middle East, it's a terrible idea. Move/study abroad where you can be yourself and date whoever you want, it's what I did. That's really the only option

(hookups are another thing tho, stay in the ME for that )

Dating is pretty easy here in Jordan, just go on Grindr

Edit: nvm you already said you did

I use grindr lol but 8 out of 10 the guys are either stuck up, or I got blocked, or I end with someone with no interest to chat, or sex freaks.

I've heard that in those countries it's easy to find other gays to have good sex with but they're unlikely to date and like, want a relationship, because sometimes they're so brainwashed that they're against their own nature. Is it true?

Yes, it's true a lot of the time.

I've been with guys whom after sex told me this was "abnormal" and that we shouldn't push for it by advocating for marriage equality.

im sorry sis :/

It's not they are brainwashed that it's against their nature unless they are bicurious or not along with their sexuality but most who don't want to complain often do so to certain physical standards, blame the homophobic society, or anything else by most I mean 80 to 85 percent. My last relationship ended cause of the age and distance excuse thing.

I'm so sorry dear :/

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All of them are hot

Come live with me. Problem solved

Do you like in the US?

Clearly he lives in a Middle Eastern country. Read the OP.