It's not about it being shallow. If someone looks better than someone else, ofc you can be in awe at that person. I am not shallow on the main things, like I only gonna talk to this person who has 3zillion Louis, a Ferrari and blah blah. Big cities are filled with shallow people. The number is at an all time high.
I'm at the point where I want to live my life and have a genuine good time with good people. What you look like has no relation to if I click with someone or not. That superficial **** is why some people will never find love and will be forever bitter and lonely.