Girls are more open-minded.
Have you seen that video where this guy is skinny in his Tinder app but fat in real life (they put a fat suit on him) when the girls go and meet him?
And they stay, have drinks and are really nice...
Whereas the exact same thing happens but the gender switches. The men accuse the woman of lying and all of them get up and insult her and leave expect one.
Not to mention girls are much less judgemental. We're most likely to date people of other races (rather than the standard) be more accepting and focus on personality.
Gay dating sitea are trash tbh so don't take it personally. I've spent like six months trying to find a bf there just to realise everyone there is about ****ing. Go out and find someone.