This guy I've been dating, i told him I'm not the clingy type but I am and now after I told him
That he never texts or calls me first I'm the one who has do suck it up and call him or text him and it's really annoying because
Sometimes we go like 4-5 days without talking.


Like I feel like I'm clingy but I don't see why it's bad I just really like the guy I'm dating and I kinda obsessive over him ;(

I think it's dumb to be dating and not talk at least once a day. Why does everyone think being clingy is bad I think it shows you generally have an interest for a person?

He's just not that into you

Why did he kiss me and lemme not get a WP for going into detail but yeah on the first date then???

Honestly it doesn't seem meant to be.... Even in the dating phase - not talking for 5 days strikes me as super odd. And you should never be the one making all the effort, I'd move on. He doesn't deserve you

Sis, he got what he wanted & now he's done with you.

I dated a clingy person. It was horrible for many reasons, Its feelslike you are being smothered in a way
Everyone have their different tastes though.

Clingy is calling somebody 4 or 5 times a day (which is annoying as ****, can I live) not checking in once or twice a day and if he makes no effort to call you then yeah he's not that into you.

Ugh I hate guys I'm going straight

Aww sweetie how old are you? you sound young, hate to say it but this dude just wanted to hit it and now that he did and he's no longer interested.

Stop being a bitch leave him alone

Talking to a person you're dating is not being clingy, it's normal in a relationship. But it sounds like you guys were just FWB.

It's not gonna work out

Tha details better be you getting some type of felatio in tha front or back because if you're tha one who gave up tha goods, then... Sorry to break it to you. I shoulda read all of this before comin at Click Clack so suddenly

My ex was extremely clingy. So clingy to the point that I'm avoiding relationships until I get my doctorate degree.

Of course, if someone amazing comes along, I MAY try it out, but I have too much to worry about in my own life to stress whether I'm "texting you back fast enough". Ugh.

If you're actually dating and the ***** doesn't text back that's pretty much telling you to not waste your time. You're not being clingy, you're communicating. 4-5 days? Unfortunately ****** don't like to be checked on to see if they're alive.

Next time (if there is nnn) ya'll link up make sure you get the dick though, so you can at least get something out of this.