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Discussion: Dating someone for Money is wrong.
Member Since: 6/1/2012
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Dating someone for Money is wrong.
Why do some women only want to marry or go out with someone who has alot of money ?
I have seen several instances of women being broke but trying marry someone to get $$$$.
I know someone that hooked up with my friend only because he works at a law firm.
I asked her
" Shouldn't you wan't to date him because of the person he is and how he treats you instead of
how much money he makes"
and she said
" I don't care if hes an asshole as long as he has a lot of money so I can live a certain lifestyle"
I can't believe some people have that mentality. I get the need for security, but you shouldnt want to settle for anyone with MONEY because he has money. That is a horrible idea. Just like
Good quotes from HOT97's EBRO on chiming in on the matter
"As soon as you dont have money in your pocket, and your car aint fresh, and your shoes aint fresh, everybody starts acting funny."
"When dudes get depressed because they have no money, nobody cares."
"When you go to talk with a woman and you dont have any money in your pocket, she won't wanna hang out with you."
Does hemake good money? What kind of car does she drive? "
WHY SHOULD IT MATTER?
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Member Since: 10/24/2010
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Yes preach it guy who is stuck in the 90's!
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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More couples should act like Cory and Topanga!
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Member Since: 10/24/2010
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But seriously your right. When I lost both my jobs i was depressed. No one gave a **** and no one ever wanted to chill with me. Now that I have a nice job and some money in my pockets they come back. Bye Felicia.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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I agree. People like that I try to stay away from.
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Member Since: 6/1/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by Ricanaire
But seriously your right. When I lost both my jobs i was depressed. No one gave a **** and no one ever wanted to chill with me. Now that I have a nice job and some money in my pockets they come back. Bye Felicia.
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YUP people are FAKE as F
BE WEARY of going out with someone and they ask you,
HOW much do u make? What car u got?
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Member Since: 9/6/2012
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I agree, we should only date for the honey.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by SpaceJam
Why do some women only
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Member Since: 9/12/2012
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Wanting financial stability isn't a bad thing per se, but it's just as valid as only wanting to be with someone because they're hot. Either way, once it's gone you'll feel stupid and realize you made a mistake. 
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Member Since: 6/1/2012
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Originally posted by Kavish
I agree, we should only date for the honey.
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because its mostly women that do it.
nOt saying men don't do this, but its more likely for a woman
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Member Since: 8/31/2013
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Yall are always thirsting for sugar daddies, yet you agree with this? Never change, never change...
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Originally posted by Hugamari
Wanting financial stability isn't a bad thing per se, and it's just as valid as only wanting to be with someone because they're hot. Either way, once it's gone you'll feel stupid and realize you made a mistake. |
Finacial stability isnt bad, but you shouldnt be dating someone
to get that stability, you should do it on your own
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Quote:
Originally posted by Daydream
Yall are always thirsting for sugar daddies, yet you agree with this? Never change, never change...
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actually I'm thirsting for daddies, they don't have to be rich. Just hot, that's what I'm about
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Member Since: 5/7/2012
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"Some women" um KFed says hi. It seems like more women do it because men tend to earn more and lots of men feel emasculated by being with a woman who earns more than him. Also women on average aren't stupid enough to let a bum boy mooch off of her. Bye boo.
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I agree, my boyfriend is rich and that alone people think i'm with him for his money. Yeah it feels good to be secure in some areas but I don't even let him buy me anything, I pay for everything even if he insists on paying for stuff. I'll make my own money, I don't need someones.
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Member Since: 6/1/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by Guernica
"Some women" um KFed says hi. It seems like more women do it because men tend to earn more and lots of men feel emasculated by being with a woman who earns more than him. Also women on average aren't stupid enough to let a bum boy mooch off of her. Bye boo.
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Just because men get paid more than women dosent mean it makes it right for
a MAN or a WOMAN to date for $$$$$$$$$$$$$$ its wrong on both sides.
But there is a common conditioning to marry someone who is a doctor or lawyer.
Dont act like its not. It has nothing to do with a man feeling emasculated, It has
to do with anyone in general.
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Member Since: 6/1/2012
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about the sugar babies blogs, i was gonna reply this but they closed it
there r a lot of sugar babies that don't even have a romantic relationship with the daddies, sometimes they're just "hired" to walk around public places with them, like going shopping, etc. some of them just want them for special occations, to show them off @ some party, idk events that rich people attend. and some of them just want them for company and stuff
and most of the times they're not even paid in actual cash, but they get tons of really expensive presents that they pick like dresses, shoes, jewelry, even cars sometimes
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Member Since: 6/1/2012
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Originally posted by cheeto
about the sugar babies blogs, i was gonna reply this but they closed it
there r a lot of sugar babies that don't even have a romantic relationship with the daddies, sometimes they're just "hired" to walk around public places with them, like going shopping, etc. some of them just want them for special occations, to show them off @ some party, idk events that rich people attend. and some of them just want them for company and stuff
and most of the times they're not even paid in actual cash, but they get tons of really expensive presents that they pick like dresses, shoes, jewelry, even cars sometimes
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If the guy is going along with that fine, but if he thinks he loves her its wrong.
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Member Since: 9/9/2012
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It's wrong if someone is doing it without disclosing it to their partner.
But if it's a situation such as a sugardaddy/sugarmomma where both of them knowingly know a main reason they're dating is money, then who is anyone to judge. If they're both fine with the terms of their relationship, then it's really for nobody else to judge or their business period.
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