I mean, is it normal? like, asking your personality type and all that? So much random things? Are straight guys normally chatty with their gay friends on social media messaging?

If you're friends why is that weird?

It's not a gay/straight thing it's just friends being friends. Don't overthink everything

This.

I mean if you're even vaguely interesting I don't see why this'd be odd.

Yes

Only gay people talk to their friends.

If he's not asking for your grindr account, then no worries.

Sorry. I only had gay friends and a few female friends. It's only lately I had a lot of straight male friends so it's new to me.

Straight guys think of you as a man. Because you are a man. So they will chat with you just like their other bros. They don't see you as an alien besides your attraction towards your own gender.

Gays don't want to be alienated but ask for it sometimes. Smh.