Discussion: Is being gay a choice?

ririfan21

I think it is. Because you can't be BORN gay.
I really can't stand when people say they was born gay.

Nemo

Definitely agree with you. I chose to be gay to be different! #rebelheart

I might choose to be straight in a few years if I want kids though

Αnt

No. Gay people are born gay.

Timber

I wish it was. Then their would be more gays everywhere since men are easier to capture.

XtinaPanicGodney

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Originally posted by ririfan21

I think it is. Because you can't be BORN gay.
I really can't stand when people say they was born gay.

Please tell me you are being sarcastic, especially on a forum like this.

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ririfan21

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Originally posted by XtinaPanicGodney

Please tell me you are being sarcastic, especially on a forum like this.

Sis.

You can't be born gay. Where is the logic?

You can be DRAWN to another sex. You just picked up different traits and that is how gays come about.

MusicTalker

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Originally posted by ririfan21

I think it is. Because you can't be BORN gay.
I really can't stand when people say they was born gay.

Let me not even with you.

Jackson

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Originally posted by Timber

I wish it was. Then their would be more gays everywhere since men are easier to capture.

ddd no one would choose to be gay if it was a choice

Like why set yourself up for a life of struggle

Jackson

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Originally posted by ririfan21

Sis.

You can't be born gay. Where is the logic?

You can be DRAWN to another sex. You just picked up different traits and that is how gays come about.

This is exactly what I'm thinking looking at your post

Timber

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Originally posted by GotSkill

ddd no one would choose to be gay if it was a choice

Like why set yourself up for a life of struggle

Think about it though, if it were a choice, no guy would think its such a weird thing since they could be aroused by both men and women.

Αnt

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Originally posted by ririfan21

Sis.

You can't be born gay. Where is the logic?

You can be DRAWN to another sex. You just picked up different traits and that is how gays come about.

I can't.

Nemo

People aren't born gay. But even so, it's not a choice. Like, do you actually think that?

People aren't necessarily born with certain mental illnesses, but can be born with traits passed down to them that makes it more likely that they will develop a form of mental illness in the future.

WheresJay

seriously how many times are yall going to have this conversation that really isn't going to provide any clarity? stop entertaining this.

Outlaws

Sure. I'll date a girl tomorrow 'cuz I will chose to be straight, just for tomorrow. I will be back to be gay another day.

XtinaPanicGodney

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Originally posted by ririfan21

Sis.

You can't be born gay. Where is the logic?

You can be DRAWN to another sex. You just picked up different traits and that is how gays come about.

Um, so are you born straight?

Explain this - if a guy gets a boner at two guys doing it just like how a straight guy gets one at two girls, did the gay guy choose to get an erection? You are BORN with sexuality. How are you so blind?

RedRed

If I had the choice then I wouldve chosen the easy way by being straight, I dont think anyone would choose to be gay given that our society in general is still very judgemental against homosexuals.

LoKoPaNdA

Existentialism says that you are not born anything, you exist first and then become whatever you are. Who you are attracted to is not exactly a choice nonetheless.

WheresJay

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Originally posted by Timber

Think about it though, if it were a choice, no guy would think its such a weird thing since they could be aroused by both men and women.

What is there to think about here? It makes no sense.

Cupcake.

I don't think your born gay or straight... thinking of a newborn as something with a predetermined sexual orientantion of its own is creepy enough...
sexuality is something that u develop into your teenage years