Tell no lies, sistrens. The poll is private

Cheating is tacky

I think I might have been cheated on, but I'll never know. Also it was only after like 2 months of dating, and I was only 18, so I thought we were already exclusive, and then like 2 months later he asked me to be his boyfriend, and I said yes, all the while I was thinking "what the **** have the past 4 months been then?"

So I guess I don't have a right to call it cheating, even though I was sad.

I only started cheating because I was cheated on (or so I think)

What is love and how do I find it?

No & yes.

Story of my entire life.

I have been cheated on but I have never cheated.

I have been cheated on, but I've never cheated.

It was scary because he ended up messing around with 7 other dudes while we were together. I was more nervous for my health than anything. Luckily, I didn't have anything.

No and no

No because I've never been in a relationship

Iv cheated on all my boyfriends and didn't give a ****

I've cheated a lot. I don't know if i have been chated on

I've been cheated on, never cheated

I have never cheated, that's just not me. I'm 90% sure I've never been cheated on too.

I have cheated. And I have been cheated.

But when its consensual I dont think I can call it 'cheating'

I mean... when I'm with someone I commit 100% but that doesnt limit me sexually. I'm in love with the person I am. I do not commit to anyone else.

Having sex with someone else doesnt make me love him less.

I always tell my partners that if they fall for anyone else, with the truth always in front.

I have always respected that.

Anyone that has asked me to be exclusive, I have tried, has never worked.

I've now been in a relationship for 4 years and we both know what happens. We have a common life and we live together and we love each other.

But we know that we both have sex with other people appart from having sex between us.

That doesnt limit us. That doesnt put a knife in each's back... Each can do as we please as long as its just sex and doesnt involve a loose in the way we feel for each other.

I understand the people that cannot accept this kind of relationship. But believe me... Its much more sane. You do not have to suffer from jealousy, you do not have to lie. You do not have to stop loving because of one time things. You do not stop something that is working for stupidities.