What do you think about obviously straight men who often act in a gay way, for example James Franco. I personally find it confusing. It's hard to find a homosexual guy in your environment. I don't need pretenders even if my gaydar works perfectly.

+ they always do all these queen-y gestures that make me feel ashamed and scared of what people would think if i told them who i really was.

what.

Does it confuse you when a gay man acts like a straight man?

Oh yeah James Franco confuses me so much

Other than that I have never come across someone like that

This has never happened to me.

James Franco acting gay isn't confusing though because he's clearly very straight and just tries to act gay as fanservice to his gay fans. If anything it says more about you that you buy into it and are confused by it

gaydars are a myth #wakeup

That never happened to me... it was just guys claiming to be straight that eventually admitted they weren't straight.

I dont pay attention to straight guys so idc.

Tbh.

There's one boy in my class that I'm 85% sure he's straight, and he's flirting with me, touching me when I sit next to him, hugging me, he even kissed me on a cheek once, and I think he's doing that just for fun but I'm not sure. It's really confusing, but I kinda enjoy it