No, there's a code.

Everyone knows the code.

You respect the code.

yes

Yes, the **** is grimy.

I would be, but my friend said if she found out I ****ed her boyfriend she wouldn't be mad because of how close we are weird

when i get an ex yes, it'd be awk af

Depends on how the relationship with my ex is.

I would definitely mind. First of all, hanging out would be awkward as ****. When you break up with someone, you don't want them to stay perched in your life. Secondly, hooking up with my ex would be a shady, petty move on my friend's part. Like, get your own. Do you really need my leftovers that bad?