Like one of the biggest clichés in the gay community is that love is hard to find and everyone just wants to hook up with each other.

But do YOU personally want to find love? When? After your trampy phase? Or from the very beginning? I know some of you (a lot of you, lbr, are young on here and so am I)

Personally, I'll settle for hook-ups but if boyfriend material comes along it's an instant yes to the first date.

This is so true tho and I hate it. I want to luv someone, not just **** with someone

yes, i would love to. i hate that stereotype that gay men only hookup the media doesn't help clear it up either

La duh!

Yes, that's like the purpose of life

Ummm no

I want to but in this gay community, love ain't easy but I still believe that I'm not alone on this. There are people like me in the world who are gay but want the same things.

I genuinely don't care... Every time I imagine being a relationship I feel like the pros and cons of me being by myself are equally weighted to me being in a relationship with someone. Not that I rule it out, but finding love isn't my priority right now.

Finding love is the only goal I have in life I would never hook up with someone, because why would someone who does not want a serious relationship with me deserve to have my body just for 1 night?

I get grossed out if I hear someone talk about Grindr, and I the idea of Pride is also not for me, cause it feels like a celebration of 'being sexual'. I'm proud of being myself, but not proud of being part of 'the community' ... at least in the way I see it.

I'll just have to find someone like me out there

Exactly what you just said.

Nope. Im in no rush.

yes, in a hopeless place = atrl

Sure why not? Not gay.

Yes. Honestly I don't even like sex. I'm just looking for love

no, I'll do when I finish college and move somewhere better.