ugh that's exactly why I've been avoiding discussions on here and other websites about this. the same people who make fun of bieber's body are the ones who'd go bonkers if anybody called their female fave fat. but w/e I don't even wanna take part in a discussion like this because I'm sure that as soon as I mention problematic male beauty standards somebody would comment with "booohooo male tears, stop whining"
btw the pressure in the gay world to look young and hot, stylish, fit, and being extremely social is even worse. it's INSANE lol
