I recently caught my boyfriend sexting another guy. There was some pretty gruesome stuff... they planned to meet and have sex and whatever else. As far as I know no nudes were exchanged
of course, if you're in a monogamous relationship then you shouldn't be doing or even talking about anything sexual with anyone other than your partner
It wasn't like they could just walk down the street and meet each other. This other guy lives in another country. Such a mess
So your man was willing to go out of his way to meet up with a man from a different country and you still need advise.
Sounds like you're hoping somebody on here will be like nah it's not cheating, so you can justify staying with him while he's dreaming of ****ing some foreign strange
Sis I know you are trying to justify his actions, especially if you have feelings for him. But it's done, you deserve so much better. Just get rid of him.
Do you think he would say no to sex if he actually found someone who lives down the street? There is no future here for you, sorry.