Marry the member: marrying hte member is the highest and bestest thing ever because its the cutest thing ever and its cuteness everdeen k?
Date the member: this member is more like your second choice out of the three...your ok with going out on a date with him or her...you may click on this date and be great..you may just not click at all and not go on a second date...anyways he/she is good...
Mistressafy the member: mistressfying a member is basically the lowest of the low. you'd meet them only when you want, treat them badly, be indifferent towards this person and dump them right away and keep them as your little secret. its the bottom of the barrel choice and its the least preferred option. you couldn't care less about what happens to them...