My friend said she would not date bi guys, because she said it would feel weird to her. I've heard other women say they won't because they feel that a bi guy wouldn't be as manly. So do you think it is closed-minded if a woman does not want to date a bi guy?

this is close minded tbh

Kind of, it's a double standard. Women can have fluid sexuality but for men it's considered more rigid. This is something I feel we need to move past as a society. Your friend likely thinks the guy is just passing through biville on his way to gaytown.

If having preferences equals being closed-minded then yes we are all a bunch of closed-minded assholes.

What about gay men who won't date bisexual men

No I wouldn't date a bisexual girl either.

No

I think its more preferance. I wouldnt date a bisexual guy and im a gay male

Obviusly not, it's her taste.
Just like some of us wouldn't date a fat person.

No hw about you speak for yourself. A preference means preferring one thing over another, not excluding groups of people. So if we all had a preference we would all be the exact opposite of assholes. But we know that ain't reality

I'd say no, however depending on the reason.

If a girl says she won't date bisexual men because she thinks that makes them less manly, then they ARE being closeminded.

But if she doesn't want to do it because for instance she's insecure about certain things and becomes jealous easily, then I would totally understand. A jealous person dating a bisexual one would probably see danger around every corner (exaggerated, but still), because they will think it doesn't even depend on gender then.

It does depend on the reason. If they feel he's not man enough then it's obviously very close-minded.

Are there girls like that? I think they're just called homophobic women...

So are the gay men who do it also homophobic?

I don't think what they identify as should be a problem. If they like you and you like them then that's all that matters. People seem quite hung up about the bisexual label.

How are you homophobic for not wanting to date someone wow.